DH annoyed me but I may have blown it out of proportion

[SheenaPunkRocker]

We were sat flicking through the music channels earlier and that "Lazy Town" song came on. I said "oh, (friends little girl) loves this song..."

DH said "How old is she?"

I said "7"

so he said, "no the girl on tv..." so I said I had no idea and he started going on about her appearance and said "well judging by how developed etc she is I'd say no older than 10.." I wasnt expecting that and it did annoy me a bit but I left it.

Anyway I was speaking to my friend and me got talking about lazy town and out of curiosity I asked how old the girl was and my friend said she was 15.

I then told DH "by the way, that girl is 15".

He then turned around and said "you're joking?? that's the most underdeveloped 15 year old I've ever seen then..." So I got annoyed and said more or less "is that all you think about" and called him a pervert, he hit the roof and said he didnt mean it like that and I was out of order.

So was I out of order? How would you have reacted to these types of comments?

and i think using the word peado is just wrong

how can you compare a man fancying a 15 year old girl, who is just weeks from being the age of consent and is NOT a child but a young woman to a man who lusts over or abuses children

the word peado means something disgusting, an evil person, someone who is a danger to shildren

are you saying my DF is a danger to children because he thinks a 15 - almost 16- year old girl is nice looking?!!?

Your sisters boyfriend may not be a peadophile or a pervert kittylette but if he is having a sexual realtionship with her he is a criminal.

And there are many things that are inbred into males and females - in a civilized society we sometimes have to inhibit our inbuilt urges and conform to the accepted social diktats

I would expect men to fancy/be attracted to my 15 year old stepdaughter - she's beautiful! I would also expect them to keep away if they knew her age. But she is gorgeous and so are her friends.

Am regretting posting this slightly as am dubious about OP.

What the fuck?