Broke up with ex just after xmas, went NC around 6 weeks ago (no kids, not married no assets together) went NC as he was manipulative and emotionally abusive.
Told him when I went no contact (over email) that he is not to contact me directly. I also blocked his number/social media/email - everything. We have mutual friends so if he needed to get in contact with me if there was an emergency he could via them.
Today I received an email from him, subject was 'my name?' and the message was blank.
I checked my email settings and his email address comes under blocked senders so no idea why it landed in my inbox. This is the first time he has contacted me since I went NC.
So what do I do? I have deleted the email so it isn't staring at me in my inbox, I don't want to speak to him, in fact just today was thinking how happy I am without him in my life! I feel totally overwhelmed by this which I know sounds ridiculous as it's just an email but it's setting off a bunch of feelings right now!
Do I ask mutual friends if he has any reason to contact me, or just ignore and try and forget about it?
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NC ex just contacted me - what to do.
holdontoyourbutts · 14/06/2016 13:18
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