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Original poster

How many sexual partners have you had?

58 replies

jamesdeandaydream · 18/12/2015 21:10

And how old are you?

2 very personal questions I know so obviously only answer if you feel comfortable sharing. I'm just curious!

I'm almost 26 and have slept with 13 people. Is this considered to be a high number?

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Theworldmakesnosense · 18/12/2015 21:15

I know a girl of your age who is well in the hundreds so I wouldn't worry Smile

Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost · 18/12/2015 21:15

I've had over 200 ONS. Some of their names I can't even remember, although I probably spent the night screaming their names.Xmas Grin.
Been with my current partner for 2.5 years.

MoominPie22 · 18/12/2015 21:15

I'm sure this was already an existing thread.............??

UptownFunk00 · 18/12/2015 21:15

I'm 25 and slept with 2 people.

I've 'done other stuff with' about 6-8 people.

I don't judge anyone on their number. As long as both parties are consenting and single, I don't feel the need to judge.

But IMO I wouldn't bat an eyelid at you telling me this if you were my friend.

SpendSpendSpend · 18/12/2015 21:16

Im 28 and have had intercourse with 24 people but have had sexual encounters without intercourse with around 6 people.

I ve only slept with the one person in the last 4 years though as thats when i met dh

goodnightdarthvader1 · 18/12/2015 21:16

Blimey, OP. You go, girl.

Only 5 (I'm 32). I'm sheltered Grin I will be encouraging my DD to "live" and have as many partners as she feels comfortable having. I regret not sowing my oats more, but I was way too shy in my teens and 20s.

Thunderblunder · 18/12/2015 21:16

I'm 39 and have been with DH for 21 years.
I couldn't tell you how many sexual partners I have had. It's well over 3 figures.

UptownFunk00 · 18/12/2015 21:17

Love it ILive at least you managed to remember their name during the deed, that speaks of great manners :)

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jamesdeandaydream · 18/12/2015 21:20

Wow I can't imagine getting into the hundreds but I've been single for a year now and I'm ready for some 'new experiences' let's just say Grin I mentioned it to my friend who has only every slept with her boyfriend and she was shocked at my number so I was left wondering whether it was bad!

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TesticleOfObjectivity · 18/12/2015 21:21

I'm 27 and have slept with between 25 and 30 men I think. I don't know the exact number but it's around that mark. Those were all before I met dp about 7 years ago, well apart from dp of course!

Original poster
jamesdeandaydream · 18/12/2015 21:23

lighthouse over 200 ONS?! Is it bad that I can barely remember the names of some of mine and my number is nowhere near as high as yours

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LuciaInFurs · 18/12/2015 21:24

Im 24 and I have only slept with my husband.

Savagebeauty · 18/12/2015 21:25

About 30.
I'm 55.
Did it all between 19 and 34.

QforCucumber · 18/12/2015 21:27

About 40 ish, am 29. Been with dp for 5 years, single and living a student lifestyle for 5 years before him though.

CwtchMeQuick · 18/12/2015 21:28

I'm 22 and I think I've slept with 14 men.
Sleep with as many people as you like imo, life is for shagging living

mamapants · 18/12/2015 21:29

11, I'm 32

toffeeboffin · 18/12/2015 21:29

I'm 33. I've slept with at least 30 but not more than 40.

lazymoz · 18/12/2015 21:30

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toffeeboffin · 18/12/2015 21:30

It's not high, OP.

Wish I'd slept with more blokes.

Moanranger · 18/12/2015 21:33

Am 63 & have slept with 14. 12 til I married (24 yrs) then current partner is 14. Important to have experience. I have friend in an emotionally abusive relationship & she has never slept with anyone else & I think this is why she cannot seem to let go.
Sometimes it's special; sometimes it's just sex, and that's just fine.

twinklestheelf · 18/12/2015 21:33

At least 50, I'm 31 and been with my husband since I was 19. I have no regrets, there's no shame in enjoying sex.

pocketsaviour · 18/12/2015 21:39

I'm 42. I think it's about 20 odd.

NapoleonsNose · 18/12/2015 21:44

43 and nine. Eight were between the ages of 16 and 20, then I met DH.

DifferentCats · 18/12/2015 21:49

Enough that I am unable to treasure the memory of each of them. Too few to shock anyone with though.

I'm in my early Thirties.

bestimeever · 18/12/2015 21:54

I'm 46. 4 in total. Kissed many, married two. Feel a bit left out now reading other messages ;-)