How many sexual partners have you had?

[jamesdeandaydream]

And how old are you?

2 very personal questions I know so obviously only answer if you feel comfortable sharing. I'm just curious!

I'm almost 26 and have slept with 13 people. Is this considered to be a high number?

37 and have only slept with husband.

Somewhere between 30 and 40
I'm 51

About 25. I'm 52.

A handful between the ages of 17-25. Around 25 from 25-28.
Just lovely DH from 28.
Aged 34 now.

34 and only DH.

I don't actually know. I'd have to start counting from the start and then backwards from now.

Maybe 30. I'm 43. What was it Andie McDowell said in Four Weddings and a Funeral? 'Less than Madonna but more than Princess Di'.

10-
2 of them were boyfriends between the age of 16 - 19
7 of them ons/casual in my one wild single year
1 of them my husband who I've been with 15 years since I was 20

I don't know.
I won't admit it.
2 different answers to 2 different questions, figure it out.

I wouldn't consider that to be a high number op.

I was a massive slut and had fun.

30 and 14 male and female partners. All but two were 1 night stands. My early 20's were fun

6 and I'm just 21

Compared to my friends that's nothing and I feel quite sheltered but my current boyfriend seemed shocked when I gave him the -a slightly lower- number .... As if it was a lot!

about 8 and one was DH who I have been with since i was 17. I am 44 now, twas fun and some were meh

I'm 36 and I've slept with 7 men. 4 of them were one night stands.

Two of the one night stands I regret and I was drunk. The others I had nice experiences with. I am in a celibate phase now and I don't know if/when I'll find anyone I want to sleep with again.

34 and 3. I was a late starter and married and divorced my first boyfriend. Had a fling in between leaving him and meeting my DP. I always wanted to have more fun but wasn't very confident.

6 partners and 22, can't see me adding anymore to that for a long while I've become happily single a recluse

10. I had several ONS at uni then I met dh. I had already decided that ONS were unsatisfying for me before I met him.

55 and about 20. One ride on the other bus, which was fun and informative. Illegal at the time too, which added to the thrill (we were both over 18).

Somewhere between 40 or 50 but I'm in the process of getting divorced so I plan to add a few more.

I'm 46 and I've had 6 partners. Been with dh nearly 25 years. 2 were ONS which were OK, but painfully awkward afterwards, other 4 were LTR. Not sure if I would change anything if I did it all again. Don't think ONS are/were my thing, but kinda wish they had been.

46 and 13 (choose which way round...) After a few ONS i noticed that I got absolutely nothing out of them except a good story to tell my mates, and stopped doing them. I think I need a LOT of practice to relax with a partner and tbh would probably have had a better sex life if I'd only ever had 2 or 3 partners.

Who gets to define what is high and low?
Why does anyone care?
I wonder what comparing to other people achieves.

I have no idea, I haven't counted. More than some, less than others.

52, and I am 48. I discovered I am bi when I was 27, when I had my first FFM experience.

I'm 26 and only been with my fiance. Feeling quite boring now compared to you lot!

Ah fuck it.

I'm 39 been with dh since 21 and I think it's 14. Male and female.

My life is so boring now!

I'm 32 and I slept with about 25 guys. 4 relationships (including DP), 2 were casual arrangements (fantastic sex but no intention of turning it into anything else), the rest were ONS or a men I went out with a few times and then things never worked out.