Christmas: Family duty and feelings of guilt.

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Just wondering what the other single women of mumsnet (meaning those with no children or DH/longer term DP are doing for Christmas?

I'm mainly asking because I'm feeling in a real turmoil about what to do about mine.

A bit of background...I'm 37 (on boxing day, argh!) Lived in London for nearly five years. Live on my own; although I do have a boyfriend of a years standing. Tbh Christmas these days mainly serves to highlight the fact I have no children or DH (would love to have both)

It's just automatically assumed by parents that I will come home every year for Christmas. This year I'm really not sure if I want to go. I would love to hear how the other single women here are balancing duty with their personal feelings. I'm feeling really stressed and unhappy over it all right now.

OP I'm thrilled for you!

Now make sure you plan yourself the day that you want and that this includes saying as your mantra

THIS IS MY CHRISTMAS AND I DON'T FEEL GUILTY, I FEEL GREAT.

Then have another mulled wine. Own your day. x

Well done OP! Great update

Oh, OP, I'm really chuffed for you and a little bit jealous that you get to do exactly what you want on Christmas Day

Brilliant - just read the thread and so pleased for you, I bet you feel so much better!

Now you can make plans for a bloody good Christmas!