Right here goes.... Along time ago I met my current partner( we where friends first) , and I had a good friend I fancied for years I asked him out and he rejected me coz of my kids so I wrote my anger and upset in my diary, I moved on, and started dating my current partner we moved in together I forgot about the diary and he bloody found it and read it!! Now he's feeling absolutely gutted and second best I keep telling him he's not I went with him because I wanted to not because I had no choice but he just replys I am second best because you asked him out first..... We're engaged and strong, this is just a nightmare situation I can't fix helllllp please? 