aw, that's great, Sky - amusing how you had no clue even when he asked for your number. Did you give him any flirty vibes yourself? anyway, great that it worked out so fast! Never is the case with me - well one was very quick off the mark but turned out very controlling (dumped soon).
Sparkly, well yes this was a major clue with the letter and phonecalls. Was it unexpected or you knew you fancied each other in the first two weeks you knew him? Did you show him that you liked him before he went away?
View, yes - though ime the caring doesn't start straight off, not before I get involved physically at which point the better bfs started to show some care, i'm still hoping that it may happen the other way round. As you can tell I'm single now, so I'd love to meet someone who just likes/loves me as a whole person before we get to the sexual stage. Also I sort of agree that older people don't play games as much, but otoh they are too slow and sceptical, I find - when I was younger men tended to jump in, whereas older guys, especially separated.recently divorced aer in no rush at all = boring really. There is a line between being to fast to jump in and not showing much excitement which is a turn off.
Szeli, that's exactly what I'm on about - he liked you 'loved you whether you were a hussy or not, ha! Just shows, be yourself. HOw did you suddenly start fancying him? yes he was too full on, but at least he's mad up for it with consistency!