We've met 5 times (all pub dates) & never even made it to first base! He's attractive & I told him so. He said I'm attractive too. He certainly looked at me with affection in his eyes. He was a little touchy feely - would occasionally rub my thigh affectionately, ditto my back. Previously, we've only had a very chaste peck on the lips goodbye. Tonight I thought it's up-the-ante time or bust. So I leant in & gave him a soft but meaningful kiss on his cheek, I didn't pull away but did it a couple of times more, then I pulled back. And what d'you think? Nothing. Nothing at all. Not a heartbeat. He just looked at me & said 'I'm not ready' and 'I'm not sure when I will be ready'. 'I do genuinely like you...really like you, but I'm not ready yet.' If you add up our 5 dates, plus all the phone calls, txts & emails over the last couple of months, we've got to know each other reasonably well, but we can't even make it to first base? I can't carry on like this, he either wants me or he doesn't. So before I tell him I'm done, what d'you reckon?