Long time member but NC for this as don't want to out myself.
If you know something is wrong, but the method by which you know it is wrong is also wrong then what to do?
If you have snooped on your boyfriend or girlfriend and found evidence of something you don't like - something inappropriate - how do you confront them without admitting what you did?
I know it's wrong and I wouldn't have done it if I hadn't been suspicious.
Turns out I was right though.
I want to have it out but don't want to admit what I did. I am a coward.
Is there a way to confront in these circumstances without losing face?