If you had your time again would you still get married?

[Smurfgirl]

So yeah?

Not necessarily about whether you love your husband as much as you used to, more about the institution of marriage.

And if you had a big party for your wedding do you wish you hadn't bothered?

I so don't wish I had got married, the only decent thing that came out of it was my DD. I also hated my wedding day, the reception was done to please the in-laws and on-one else and husband barely spoke to me the whole evening as he went and sat with his mates all night!

So no, no, no!!

thanks elliehsmum...Like you said, these days we heard mostly negative things about marriage and its a shame as there are actually happily married couples out there.

Sure, things aren't always so good and we do have times where things are trying for the both of us. DH annoys me or I annoy him BUT we believe that marriage needs to be worked at. We are 2 different people with sometimes totally opposite views BUT its the fact that we realise this that helps. I think also being with the "one" is an added bonus ..!!!

That said, I'm not knocking those that get divorced..sometimes you have to do whats right for your situation.