Drunken comments

[daisygatsby]

So at a 'do' over weekend. As usual h gets too drunk

We had been bickering as I was pissed off with his inability to go on a night out without getting plastered.

As we were going to bed out of blue he comes out with ' my mother was raped. So stick that up your feminist hole.'

I asked him in the am if it was true..no she wasn't but may have been molested..he doesn't know...

How would you feel about this ?

Regardless of the revelation why "stick that up your feminist hole"

Regardless of the point he was trying to make, why bring up or invent a serious assault on his mother?

And as for combining both the revelation and what he told you do do with it, well worlds fail me (well not really but ykwim)

What point was he actually trying to make? That being a feminst doesn't stop you from being raped? That being a woman means that you will likely be raped? Just horrible.

Being drunk is no excuse for arseholery. In vino veritas etc etc

Three issues here

1. he can't drink without getting plastered (still a problem even if he was a cute and fluffy drunk

2. he's not actually a fluffy drunk, he's an extremely unpleasant one

3. unless I've missed something he's not showing a right lot of remorse

OP. What do you want to do?

He has alcohol and drug issues and he doesn't like you much. So why stay with him is the question?

The way to get through a day, then another day, then the rest of your life is to leave the bastard

He drinks heavily and takes drugs?

That explains it!

LTB!