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do you passionately kiss your dh other than as part of sex?

63 replies

jasper · 13/11/2006 23:26

Kissing is one of the best bits of a new relationship.
Can anyone sustain that forever?
I can't

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expatinscotland · 13/11/2006 23:27

No.

He's not a good kisser.

I make up for it w/fantasy.

notasheep · 13/11/2006 23:28

No.
He stinks of fags

jasper · 13/11/2006 23:29

neither is dh

it bothers me but does not crush me

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kama · 13/11/2006 23:29

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suzywong · 13/11/2006 23:29

no of course not, don't be sucked in by the movies and romantic fiction

silly girl

poptot · 13/11/2006 23:30

actually yes we've had a bit of a revival of passionate kissing recently and very nice it is too, makes me remember why I fancy him..

suzywong · 13/11/2006 23:30

tart

Gillian76 · 13/11/2006 23:30

Yes. Not every day though

jasper · 13/11/2006 23:31

suzywong

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jasper · 13/11/2006 23:31

seem to have touched a nerve.
Responses coming thick and fast

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harrisey · 14/11/2006 07:30

Yes every day. Why not? My dh is a fabulous kisser!

peegeeweegee · 14/11/2006 09:37

nope... I really don't like passionate kissing, never have

yes, it is exciting as part of a new relationship, but after 15 years....
we kiss, cuddle, touch etc, but the passionate kissing thing has gone...

Raggydoll · 14/11/2006 09:39

not really - would like to though

earlgrey · 14/11/2006 09:41

Sex? Kissing?

Doh! Go and find yourself a nice craft

northerner · 14/11/2006 09:41

No, I would love too though. I love a good snog.

But for dh, snog = shag. So therefore I could never just snog him because then it would mean a shag as far as he was concerned

purplemonkeydishwasher · 14/11/2006 09:43

my dh is like yours northerner.
if i kiss him he automatically thinks he'll get some.

HuwEdwards · 14/11/2006 09:48

oh yes, dp and I used to regularly suck the heads off eachother at the bustop for hours. I adored kissing him. Only very ocassionally have a snog now....sigh....

earlgrey · 14/11/2006 09:52

HE, are you a Tory minister

GoingQuietlyMad · 14/11/2006 09:59

Or even during sex?

frenchconnection · 14/11/2006 10:02

just got back into snogging very recently acually and must admit its rather nice! been together 5 yrs and have a ds,nearly 3, who never ever ever sleeps at night so our love life has gone down the pan...(thought about splitting)...but its nice to remember why you fancied each other in the first place

bring back snogging!!!

zephyrcat · 14/11/2006 10:05

Nope I wish we did though. I love kissing - but then like Northerner says generally passionate snog would more than like lead to sex so that's probably why it doesn't happen often!!!

LadyMacbeth · 14/11/2006 10:09

Actually I think I must be getting old but the thought of meeting tongues during the cold light of day really does not appeal. Fine during steamy loving sessions but not after putting the bins out. Nope.

HuwEdwards · 14/11/2006 10:12

EG

MusicLover · 14/11/2006 10:19

Not as much as we used to but we do have the odd passionate snog. DH still makes my tummy have butterflies when we do.
We definatly kiss/peck everyday, even if he is just going to the shop! I dont want that to fade either.
But I know what you mean about it leading into a shag, we all feel pressured into that sometime or other.
Overall my DH is a great kisser, isnt it that what starts the sparks, which leads to passion, which leads to why you get married. Couldnt be with someone if they didnt "float my boat"

MegaLegs · 14/11/2006 10:24

Like your dh northener the slightest hug and dh thinks I'm up for a quick one! We got really drunk at my sister's birthday party last summer, everyone else was in the garden, I went for a little lie down on the sofa and dh found me and pounced. We just snogged for ages and had a right giggle, it was like getting off with someone at a teenage party.