did your mum KNOW you were having sex as a teenegr

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or suspect
mad woman on tv ( am irongin) saying that you should discuss it
NOooooooooooooooooooooooo way JOse

imo you keep schtum
the shame
" are you havign sex codlet" "o h yes mumm"

Yes she did. My ex moved in with us when I was 15.

yes she did

she used to let my bf sleep in my room with me

apparently not, what she thought I was doing with them in my room avernight I will never know.

[shock
god cdononed sex takes fun out of it surely

Yes. BF was allowed to stay in my room at 16.

god dh and i werent allowed to before we MOVEd in!

No.

And there is NO WAY I'd have told her.

I was abroad when I lost my virginity, and then had two partners in the 2 years between then and when I left home at 18.

My sister and two close first cousins (female) knew, and got me on birth control.

But there is NO WAY I'd have told my mum.

Even though I had sex in her bed .

I was 16 when sexually active anyway, and stayed over my fella's house, so yes. (he's still my fella now)

lol, at ILs though we had to be married.

Hah no, she asked me at 17 if I had ever kissed someone

Now though she lurves dp, surprised there are no condoms on our pillows when we go to stay have been v.surprised at how liberal they have beem with us.

My mum found my pill when she was in my room "looking for a magazine" then she said is he the one then i.e If I've slept with him I should marry him!

I only just managed to have sex as a teenager (fairly late starter).

My first boyfriend after I got back from France was this Dutch fella whose parents expected him to have sex. I mean, he was 17, after all.

So I'd lie and say I was staying w/my friend Suzanne, when really I was at his.

My next boyfriend was this Austrian bloke here on a year's exchange. His host family were hippies, so they let us sleep in the same room/bed and their 16-year-old daughter's boyfriend lived there.

I'd say I was staying over at a friend's overnight .

For the record - my Mum isn't remotely hippy-ish

What was her reasoning for letting hte boyfriend move in, NdP, if you don't mind my asking?

I was having a new carpet in my bedroom and had stayed at friends overnight.
My mum decided that she would surprise me and get it fitted while I was out.
She told me that anything she had found laying around she had put in my top draw out of the way.
I knew what would be in there before I even looked. A vibrator.

God no. Would have been mortified. Still haven't admitted it or talked about it. Although I suspect my brother let the cat out of the bag when I was about 25.

I have never discussed sex w/my mother. Or my father.

No, I just don't go.

Basically we were living in a proprty that my Mum had bought with her arsehole of a bloke (at the time). She couldn't afford to pay the mortgage alone if she got rid of him, so we agreed that my boyfriend should move in and pay rent to help cover the mortgage (amongst other reasons)

Yes she did.

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I think she suspected. I was at home but DH (9 years older) had his own place and I stayed often. She never asked but I know she wouldn't have had a problem. I was 8 weeks pregnant at the wedding but we kept it under our hats until we came back from honeymoon!

But i wasn't a teenager, I was 22/23.