That's about it really. I don't mind being a SAHP, I even enjoy aspects of it but keeping all the plates spinning without so much as a please or thank you (and yes I do point this out) is taking it's toll. I can almost expect it from the kids but everyone including DH makes me feel like a total dogsbody. I speak out about it, I'm assertive and it all goes pear shaped. So I'm on strike. No dinner in this house tonight. No housework. If anyone is anything less than pleasant to me I'm going to take myself into another room without saying a word. Don't know how long I can keep this up for but I need to make a stand. Has anyone ever done this and how did it go?