What do you think?

[whoseright]

I am a regular, but have changed my name because I dont really like talking about dh on here.

I looked through his text messages the other day, purely because I am nosy, lol, And I found text messages from a very good female friend of his (I know her too) and one read......

I am feeling horny, so thought I would text you.

Another one said.....

Morning Gorgeous.

Now I know nothing is going on, and totally trust him, my problem is, I dont think a woman should speak to a married man in this way, especially as she know me too, I find it disrespectful. He says they are just having a laugh.

How would you feel???

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I don't really want to type out what I think would constitute text sex - save to say it would be a lot more suggestive than the texts outlined by the original poster. That is NOT to say that I don't think whoseright is anything other than totally justified in feeling angry about this situation.

whoseright, I think you really believe (given the hours your partner works and the fact that the woman lives a fair distance away) that there is no affair going on here and I would say that you are probably right! I certainly hope so!

im curious to know what others class as text sex ?!i mean,maybe some people think masturbation has to have been taking place for it to be text sex,but thats not the point.
all im saying is that if i founf texts like that on my dp/dh's phone then i would react in exactly the same way i would if i caught them in bed with somebody else.