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bumpthedoor · 18/12/2014 13:33

The one about the husband on a course for work. Was it deleted or is it still there somewhere?

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Granville72 · 19/12/2014 13:34

I got suspicious when troll said he'd been dropped off outside the house by the OW but didn't go out.

Most of us if we had any doubt the OH was being unfaithful and got dropped off by the suspected other person, we'd have been out the door and confronted them.

More to come I guess with half term starting today in most areas

daisychain01 · 19/12/2014 13:53

My doubts were raised because she posted a long list of compelling evidence as to why she suspected infidelity, everything from improving his personal hygiene (overnight), putting on a "designer shirt" (who says that anyway? Isn't it just a ... shirt?), all that faff with the mobile on the wardrobe, going on "a course" where he had to leave home ridiculously early

And counting 5 squirts of aftershave Xmas Hmm

It just seemed to go on and on and on, feeding new information in each update - contrived in the extreme. So I didn't invest.

brokenhearted55a · 19/12/2014 14:16

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LoisChristmasPuddingLane · 19/12/2014 14:39

I'm very easily taken in, which is why I hate practical jokes. I never find it particularly funny, I'm just Confused and a bit non-plussed.

BlueBrightBlue · 19/12/2014 22:44

I think the OP had concerns about her husbands fidelity and embellished/invented a few scenarios.
Perhaps someone with jealousy issues..

usualsockpuppet3333333 · 19/12/2014 22:47

I don't think that sweeping the troll issue under the carpet is on TBH.

MN is crawling with the fuckers.

BlueBrightBlue · 19/12/2014 22:55

I have had posts deleted on other sites where I have been completely honest with the facts.
Wondering if anyone ever has complete freedom of speech?

PaisleySheets · 20/12/2014 01:16

I was just wondering about a subject and searched past threads for advice and read some amazing stuff. Whether the thread is real or fake, the advice is real and many benefit from it, I read a lot of threads and take great comfort and wisdom from the words within them, so I think it is never wasted unless the thread is deleted. Once it's deleted all the efforts do becomes wasted, plus there's a big hullabaloo an it's just the attention trolls want.

I am also not convinced that because someone reverse posts or gives false details in a story that they are not genuinely seeking help and advice. Perhaps some people do it just for attention or to cause trouble, but perhaps not all.

I'd hate for there to be a situation where people stop helping if a thread seems overly dramatic or far fetched because some of them are clearly true.

PaisleySheets · 20/12/2014 01:19

I was just wondering about a subject and searched past threads for advice and read some amazing stuff. Whether the thread is real or fake, the advice is real and many benefit from it, I read a lot of threads and take great comfort and wisdom from the words within them, so I think it is never wasted unless the thread is deleted. Once it's deleted all the efforts do becomes wasted, plus there's a big hullabaloo an it's just the attention trolls want.

I am also not convinced that because someone reverse posts or gives false details or embellishes or puts forward scenarios in a story that they are not genuinely seeking help and advice?

Perhaps some people do it just for attention or to cause trouble, but perhaps not all.

I'd hate for there to be a situation where people stop helping if a thread seems overly dramatic or far fetched because some of them are clearly true.

PaisleySheets · 20/12/2014 01:20

sorry for the double post, computer fart

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