am always a bit 
at posts which say "don't post how you spot them, you don't want to give them any ideas." do people really think that these trolls don't know what they're doing? or that suddenly they'll read "I spot them from the continuing drama," and then think "oh, I won't do that, never realised that." The workings of internet trolls are widely published all over the internet, they're really not going to learn something from here that they don't already know.
Personally I think that the vast majority of the serious threads on here are made up, and that 99.9% of relationship threads (I mean the "he's cheating/is violent/has lashed out at me in the heat of an argument/has smacked the kids etc ones are works of pure fiction, and that with a few exceptions, anything which goes into more than one thread is made up or imbelished at best.
The phone on top of the kitchen cupboard did it for me, if he was secretly texting he wouldn't hide his phone up there, and who the fuck looks on top of the kitchen cupboards for a phone....?
I have to say that I think the fact that we are pointing out the dramatic appearance of trolls means that they're getting more boring now and less likely to generate massive threads. A few years ago we had the cvq/dizzymare/fox trolls posting in the heat of the drama and posters falling over themselves to be there for them. Now the fact that people have pointed out that over dramatic threads are generally suspicious means that less of these threads are appearaing and that while "he's having an affair with his soulmate of five minutes" threads do generate some attention, on the whole people get bored of them after a few days if they're not outed as trolls.