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How long until you got married?

102 replies

Posey · 05/10/2006 19:42

Dh and I were together for 6.5 years before we got married, now been married for 10.5 years. What about you?
No reason for asking, just nosey.

OP posts:
Mateychops · 05/10/2006 21:53

What'ya doing for your anniversary, Emskilou? My M had a ruby murray party instead of a ruby wedding anniversary, and a tickety-boo night it was

wheresthehamster · 05/10/2006 21:54

Lived together since 1985 but never married.
Have all the parental responsibility agreements and wills in place for the children though.

Loshad · 05/10/2006 21:56

met oct 1983 - freshers fair for me
moved in together oct 1986
got married sept 1992 (don't like to rush things
still happily married

Emskilou · 05/10/2006 21:57

Planning on getting drunk and dancing lots on the Saturday night which will carry over into early hours of Sunday morning. Then having a big lunch and a bottle of champagne and then taking babies to the park for fun!

That limp dick tosser of an ex husband of mine will not been in my thoughts at all (I hope!) Oooh do I seem angry?!?!

Twohoots · 05/10/2006 21:58

Together 10 years before marriage (never thought it would happen tbh but we were only 18 and 20 when we met), been married 4 years. Have a DD 17 mths.

KBear · 05/10/2006 22:00

He moved in with me two days after we had our first date. It's true what my mum always said "you just know when you have met Mr Right". His parents had moved away, he was living with his brother so I said "wanna stay here?"[tart emoticon]!

We got engaged after 6 months and got married exactly two years to the day that we got together.

Still happy 14 years later - she says, speaking for both of us!

margauxx · 05/10/2006 22:03

Well nosy posey (sorry couldn't resist!!)
together for 4.5 years before he popped question
married 3.5 years now so together 8.5 years now

Mateychops · 05/10/2006 22:04

Emskilou - woooooohoooooo!

Emskilou · 05/10/2006 22:06

hehe [eveil laugh emoticon] I will have to stay away from all phones etc in order to resist the urge to call him and tell him what I think of him (haven't seen him in 15 months so theres a whole lot of anger there!!) apologies for hijack

QueenEvil · 05/10/2006 22:10

"How long until you got married?"

I waited until I was 20.

harrisey · 05/10/2006 23:15

Met Oct 1989
Started going out April 1990
Engaged Jan 1993
Married Dec 1994 - so almost 12 years married, after going out for almost 3 years and engaged for almost 2. Didnt move in together until we got married.

3 children born 2000, 2002, 2003

Smurfgirl · 05/10/2006 23:16

Engaged after a year, we will be married after 3.5 years.

Tiggly · 05/10/2006 23:22

met 1997, moved in to his flat after 3.5 months, bought a house together in 2001 and got engaged the same year, getting married in 2008, 2 cats 0 children, yet.

bottomburp · 05/10/2006 23:23

going out 7yrs before got engaged then married one yr later, 5 yrs later and have fab DD.

did make DH wince when got engagment ring though, he said you can spend this much and i said, if you had asked me within 2 yrs then i wd have been happy with a chip but you made me wait 7 yrs so want something BIG, i spent 1k more than he said.am not materialistic in any other way but feel i truly deserve this diamond and am not at all sentimental so have said if he ever earns a big wad bonus i am happy to trade up!!!

suedenley · 05/10/2006 23:28

together 11 years before we got married our three kids were all present

HauntedsandCastle · 05/10/2006 23:48

together 4 years til engaged, then a year or so later were married, been married for 13 years next year

rbj949703 · 06/10/2006 00:00

Met November 1989
Married August 1990

AttilaTheMeerkat · 06/10/2006 07:10

we met in November 1993 (on a blind date)
engaged July 1994
married May 1995

IdrisTheDragon · 06/10/2006 07:14

Met October 1994
Got engaged May 1998
Got married August 1999

SeaSKULLS · 06/10/2006 07:57

Been together 10 years, got 3 kids and still not married! Don't know if or when we will get down the aisle.

trinityrhino · 06/10/2006 08:04

together for 6.5 months before we got married, been married for nearly 7

trinityrhino · 06/10/2006 08:04

nearly 7 years I mean

TutterIckOrTreat · 06/10/2006 08:04

met sept 99
married march 03

elliepmonstermummy · 06/10/2006 16:02

met 1996 (i was only 16 he was 21)
Moved in together sept 1999
Engaged 31/12/99 at midnight!!!
Married 5/7/03

so took nearly 7 years but mainly because we were so young when we met

ProfYaffle · 06/10/2006 16:03

Moved in after 6 months married after 5.5 years. Knew some friends who married after 10 yrs of living together, split up about 6 months after the wedding.

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