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It's my wedding night. I'm all alone.

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IsThisReallyHappening · 04/11/2014 21:03

Today I got married.

This afternoon we arrived at our hotel to stay the night.

On arrival I checked my facebook to see some congratulation messages.

One message was not quite what I was expecting.

My 'husband' cheated on me 8 weeks ago.

I'm now sat here alone. On my wedding night. My 'husband' is gone.

I'm pregnant too.

I already have a child with him.

What the actual fuck has just happened to my life?

I feel trapped.

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KateSMumsnet · 05/11/2014 16:13

IamThatGuy - we feel that it's clear that the OP has come onto Mumsnet to get advice and support, and it's probably best not to muddy the water any further, and as other posters have said, it's probably best that such discussions at kept for real life. We'll be mailing you shortly.

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ChristmasKateMumsnet · 05/11/2014 16:24

@IsThisReallyHappening

Kate, you have blocked my IP address - meaning I can not access MN on my usual laptop (he was using this). Please can you unblock my IP.

We haven't done anything with regards to your IP address. Sorry we can't help you on this - perhaps you could contact your internet provider?

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ChristmasKateMumsnet · 05/11/2014 16:34

@IsThisReallyHappening

Well when you blocked me, I couldn't access MN on my mobile in any way - when you unblocked me I could access it on my mobile. When I was blocked I was able to read MN on my laptop.

Now you have blocked him, I can't access MN on my laptop, but can read on my mobile.

Can you explain that?

Why can't I access MN from my laptop from the moment you blocked him? As I said, he was using MY laptop.

I'm on an incognito browser in order to get around it Hmm.

Afraid we can't actually. When we suspend an account, it's the individual account that is affected, not the IP. Can we suggest that you try clearing your cookies and cache? Sorry you're having trouble with this, it must be v annoying - but we can assure you we haven't done anything our end that would affect your IP.

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ChristmasKateMumsnet · 05/11/2014 16:43

@IsThisReallyHappening

Hmmm, that probably doesn't make much sense.

Okay, last night I was last logged in and posting using my mobile. When I tried to access MN this afternoon, I found I was blocked from my mobile. However if I used my laptop, I could read threads and log in under my usual name. But not the name I am using here.

Now I can't access MN from my laptop unless in incognito browser. But I can access it fine on my mobile. This is since you blocked him.

We're sorry IsThisReallyHappening - we're not sure why this is has happened. As we said before, when we suspend someone it affects their account, not the device or IP. We know it's a bit of a tech cliche, but could you try logging out and back in again, if clearing cookies doesn't help?

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ChristmasKateMumsnet · 05/11/2014 16:43

@IsThisReallyHappening

I've cleared the cookies and cache. I did it for the last week - this didn't work. So I had to do it from the beginning of time.

This worked.

Ah sorry cross post - so you're able to post from your laptop now?

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IonaMumsnet · 05/11/2014 20:03

Evening all. Just a couple of clarifications: Yes, swearing is allowed on Mumsnet - occasionally it is compulsory. However, personal attacks are not allowed, so directing swearing at someone, we may well view as a PA. So: 'Fuck me, IonaMumsnet, that's a big gin you've got there' = fine. 'Fuck off with your big gin, IonaMumsnet' = not fine usually.

Arsenic to answer your point in your post earlier this evening ('Something called 'trollhinting' was specifically given the thumbs up by MNHQ towards the end of a thread last week'), no - sorry for the confusion but we definitely don't condone troll hunting, hinting or anything else. Please always just use the report button. If you're right, it just feeds the trolls, if you're wrong it upsets someone. We're here to deal with all that, so, you know, you enjoy yourselves. Relax. Have a look round the gardens. Get a gin and a sausage roll. Let us take the strain! Wink

Here's a link to RowanMumsnet's much more erudite response to this on the SiteStuff thread on Monday 27 Oct at 20:06.
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/site_stuff/a2216573-OFFICIAL-MNHQ-THREAD-on-posts-about-suicide-troll-hunting-and-related-matters?msgid=50352100#50352100

Hope that clears things up a bit.

OP - sorry for the thread hijack. Hope things are a bit calmer for you this evening.

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