Mine isn't and it's 9pm over here in Germany.
When do your dh's get home?
I don't know but it seems like he's married to his lab not to me, and his microscope contraptions are his kids not our ds and dd. Just sending them off to bed, another night without even seeing dad all day, times like this I wonder why we bother to stay.
Rant over, dh isn't even around to get nagged and ranted at.