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my Husbands Ex girlfriend is liking Familie pictures of me and my husband on Facebook

62 replies

yellow500 · 14/10/2014 12:29

I have been with my husband for 2 years .we recently married a couple of months ago.
5 years ago he had a relationship with a women for a year. My husband told me that when he was with her, she would always say to him he would end up in a relationship with me.

Since we married she has been liking our wedding photos on facebook which our families have uploaded.and liking very close family members facebook status's..which has become more often recently..I don't know what to make of it..is she wishing us well..is she jealous..is she trying to raise her profile as to try to put a spanner in the works of our relationship...I don't feel confident enough to ask her why she is doing this...what does any one think...as she got good intentions or is she trying to be sneeky ..It's obviously getting to me otherwise I wouldn't be posting..any comments would be most appreciated Smile

OP posts:
jesy · 15/10/2014 10:22

Hi

I can see it from both sides.
I liked my ex bf status the other day and his current date liked my comment my first thought was well he mine you been around for five mins.
Yes I'm jealous in a way but I'm also happy he got a gf,

Venticoffeecup · 15/10/2014 12:20

I don't really use Facebook anymore, partly because of stuff like this.

I have 'liked' posts by my ex in the past, simply because it's polite. When I was a regular user I always liked everyones engagement/wedding/baby announcement posts as well as stuff I found interesting.

It wasn't indicative of any deeper feelings on my part, just good Facebook manners really.

m0therofdragons · 15/10/2014 12:28

I "like" my exes pictures. We split amicably and I'm really happy for him. His wife is lovely (I went to school with her) and our lives are pretty similar. He also likes some of my pictures. There is no chance of us being together and if they lived close by we'd probably socialise with them.

missv123 · 13/04/2015 19:15

Hi! Im joining 1yr later, I hope i can still get some advice, so my hubby was with someone for about 7yr she's was & still married, so it was never a serious thing, they broke up about 3 yrs ago, but somehow she meet his family and didn't care that they know she was married andbecams friends on FB, she even expresed them she wanted to be a part of the family but didn't work.
when me & him meet he deleted her from FB and most of their common friends, but since she still friends w his sister & mom she can see alot of the stuff we do, even if they post something & i comment she'll comment right after me, but last week we all got together and posted family pics on Fb even pics of him with his niece and she liked the pics, and she hitted liked on all the posts (not mine of course she's a bit smart) so I don't know how to feel, I know it's just fb but as a woman I pretty sure she still friends w the fam so she see what we do and see pics, and she still married with kids, and im sure she hasn't contact him and I trust him 100% but I don't know how to feel about if I should say something to him, complain? Or just ignore it and maybe she'll get bored & tired one day, she's close to her 40's so I have no idea about what she pretends to do or if she's just trying really hard to provoke me? I hope I can get some advice from u, thanks!!

missv123 · 13/04/2015 19:16

We've together almost for 1 1/2 yrs, married for 3 months :))Smile

Ouchbloodyouch · 13/04/2015 20:54

miss you would be best off starting a new thread Wink

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SandyY2K · 08/01/2017 02:40

Change your settings to private and block her. I find it weird that she's doing it that much and also feel it's something to do with her 'knowing' you'd end up together. She obviously had her feminine intuition spot on.

SandyY2K · 08/01/2017 02:42

Damn!!!

Didnt realise how old this thread wasn

Fallonjamie · 08/01/2017 02:43

ZOMBIE ZOMBIE ZOMBIE ZOMBIE ZOMBIE

Primaryteach87 · 08/01/2017 03:06

I've liked ex bfs photos ..I'm happily married (as is he). It's ancient history and it's just nice to see happy photos really! I'm FB friends with his wife. It never occurred she would read anything into a like. She likes my photos and occasionally comments with advice about toddlers.

With no backstory I think you are way overthinking.

Primaryteach87 · 08/01/2017 03:07

^whoops just seen it's an old post!

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