What's the polite thing to say when your husband seems to be sporting a new hair style that makes him look ridiculous.
Background here is our marriage is almost over, teetering on the edge of an abyss. Has been bad for years. So frankly I don't notice him much these days, but I can't stop noticing his hair.
It's not just me. The DC have commented, so have family and friends. To him and also to me...... In a WTF kind of way.
I get that it's not really my place to say anything but frankly my DC are embarrassed (and yeah I know parents do embarrass children all the time). And yes I would be shocked if he said something to me about my style, but also I would hate to think people were finding me amusing in that way.