Been with DP 9 years. We are both female. We haven't had the easiest relationship and we are going through a rough patch at the moment- bit that that excuses anything.
Yesterday I went to a conference. One of the speakers was a woman about my age or slightly older. She was clearly 'out' as gay as she spoke about an ex girlfriend and later said she was single, both as 'asides' during her presentation. The presentation was fantastic and made me admire her greatly as she is clearly a very gifted professional in my field.
After it had finished I went up to her and said quietly that I had never done this before but as she had mentioned an ex girlfriend and that she was single, maybe she'd like to go out for a drink sometime. She agreed, took my number and said she 'd text me.
I don't know what came over me! I now feel both guilty and confused. She hasn't texted me and probably won't but I don't know what I'd do if she did. I love my DP and am very confused by my actions. Talk me down please!