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Original poster

I need sex 24/7 even to the point I may cheat :(

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Helpme1985 · 07/03/2014 08:23

I have NC for this . I have 3 DC with my partner and we are a very happy family as things go. However once a month over 4 days I'm as horny as hell , even to the point I could walk past a random guy and just wanna f**^ the hell out of him . My DP is great in bed and always makes sure I reach O and more if need be but about a Half hour will pass abd I'm ready to go again . I think this is during the time I'm ovulating as it comes over me with a bang . It's not great as I don't want any more DC I do have a coil. I don't know if maybe Im bipolar or something ? I'm worried that one day I will take this too far and have sex with someone else . :(

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CogitoErgoSometimes · 07/03/2014 08:30

What you're describing doesn't sound at all normal and more like a kind of manic episode featuring extreme loss of inhibition. Would you consider talking to your GP?

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Helpme1985 · 07/03/2014 08:33

I don't know if I would have the courage to speak to GP about this ....

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Wobblypig · 07/03/2014 08:34

Get your testosterone and thyroid function checked

CogitoErgoSometimes · 07/03/2014 08:39

GPs IME have heard pretty much everything. They're almost impossible to shock, put it that way.

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Helpme1985 · 07/03/2014 08:45

My thyroid was checked a while back and it was boderline slow (can't remember the technical word ) but had it rechecked and came back fine ?

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Shaguar · 07/03/2014 10:10

Are you able to talk to your dh about this? Surely that would be the best place to start, not with your GP? He might be very willing to do his best to up his game even further on those days. You know, maybe make it a game to see how many times he can make you come on those days etc.?

If you already have talked to him, see whether he can suggest a fun way forward. :-)

WhateverTrevor83 · 07/03/2014 10:40

I always get very horny for a few days before my period. Not sure I've ever worried I'll start leaping on other men though Hmm

Talk to DH x

scarletforya · 07/03/2014 10:57

Could you go on the pill, that would kill your sex drive.

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Helpme1985 · 07/03/2014 11:07

Will Talk to him tonight , see what he can do , think he is knackered tbh , he is v good in bed so no idea what this obsession with other men is ? It's really bizarre

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LoisPuddingLane · 07/03/2014 11:08

Can't you just wank? I don't have a partner so when I get to that fruity time of the month I take matters into my own hands.

BrunoBrookesDinedAlone · 07/03/2014 11:12

I think you need to see a doctor. This sounds like a health issue - homonal imbalance?

Stop thinking about it as to do with sex and start thinking about it as to do with your health. Get it sorted, it's important.

Branleuse · 07/03/2014 11:12

if its only 4 days, just enjoy it. wank lots have extra sex and send fruity text messages to your dp.
Im sure youre not in danger of jumping on random men, however much you may fantasise.

BrunoBrookesDinedAlone · 07/03/2014 11:13
  • I'd say the same as Branleuse says above btw, if it weren't for the fact that you are clerly unhappy and worried about it.
str8tothepoint · 07/03/2014 11:13

Maybe you have a fantasy of wanting to sleep about with random guys or maybe this is just another wind up post

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Helpme1985 · 07/03/2014 12:46

I do masturbate but it's still not enough , I still need more , think it makes it worse , I think something is wrong tbh.

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Impatientismymiddlename · 07/03/2014 12:49

I think you need to find more satisfying ways of masturbating. Try some different sex toys and see if they help.

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Helpme1985 · 07/03/2014 12:52

This is not a wind up post , I wouldn't post something like this to wind people up , I wouldn't see the point in that tbh . Yea maybe I need to up my game , I don't know but it's getting to point of taking over my life when I'm going through a stage like this , it's all I can think about, that's probably why I think about f**g anyone Blush

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LoisPuddingLane · 07/03/2014 12:56

It's only four days a month - how is it taking over your life?

ouryve · 07/03/2014 12:58

I'm guessing that this is mostly mid month? I second going on the pill as a rather efficient libido killer.

LoisPuddingLane · 07/03/2014 13:01

I go a bit sexy mid month, I quite look forward to it.

firstchoice · 07/03/2014 13:10

It is probably around ovulation time?
Do you get ewcm around the same time?
worth asking your gp to do bloods for hormone levels, as it is obviously bothering you, despite having a healthily active sex life?

I'd wait to see what gp says before you share with your partner any fantasies of leaping on other men as he might find that hard to hear?

LoisPuddingLane · 07/03/2014 13:30

What is ewcm? Extra wet cunt mucus?

ouryve · 07/03/2014 13:31

Egg White Cervical Mucus.

Or fanny snot.

LoisPuddingLane · 07/03/2014 13:38

Ah yes. Yes, I get that when the HORN strikes.

NoArmaniNoPunani · 07/03/2014 13:39

What is ewcm? Extra wet cunt mucus?

It will be from now on Grin