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Original poster

Fancy my boss! Help

222 replies

AdvicePlease1709 · 24/02/2014 20:22

I have name changed as i really don't want to be outed. I work very closely with my boss and have a good working relationship.

Just recently though i find myself losing concentration in meetings because i am looking at him and bloody dreaming about him at night.

I feel like i am a teenager again and it is really affecting my work. It wouldn't be so bad if i didn't have to work with him nearly every hour of the day.

I am seriously considering looking for work elsewhere.

OP posts:
Jinsei · 26/02/2014 22:07

Don't forget to update us OP! :)

firstchoice · 26/02/2014 22:10

Ahhh, sounds like he really likes you too!
Hope you are able to keep conveying that to each other and have a proper kiss before you have to go home tomorrow?

Don't hop in to bed with him though, take your time with this but be very clear you like him, and then when you get back you can have a proper date?

wishing you luck, OP!

Bogeyface · 26/02/2014 22:15

5'll get you 10 that she is riding him like a cowboy right now :o

Or that could be my overactive jealousy imagination!

MerryInthechelseahotel · 26/02/2014 22:21

She had better tell us now after all this!

AmIatwat · 26/02/2014 22:29

I'm not going to get much sleep, praying for a happy outcome.

Ragglefrock · 26/02/2014 22:29

Shamelessly marking place

MamaPingu · 26/02/2014 22:33

I'm fed up of finding threads like this and getting giddy about the OP and having to wait for an answer for ages Grin

Ratbagcatbag · 26/02/2014 22:37

Marking place for update. :) good luck op

Incapinka · 26/02/2014 22:39

Eeeek! What's happening?!

something2say · 26/02/2014 22:40

Marking place too, how exciting!

AmIatwat · 26/02/2014 22:46

Something is definitely happening. Gosh I wish I was OP.I'd 'ave 'im.

Bogeyface · 26/02/2014 22:50

Interesting thought to keep you going until we get the update....

what is the ettiquette on calling sick to your boss because you have a hangover and are walking like John Wayne thanks to a night of champagne and shagging, if the man you were shagging is in fact, your boss?

Do you make the call, all official? Or is it ok to pillow talk it?

Original poster
AdvicePlease1709 · 26/02/2014 22:50

Thank you for all your advice ladies. We went for a walk and had a really good chat about how we both really felt and it is mutual.

We are going to start dating and seeing how things go. He said he was really pleased I had come to talk to him as he was a bit gutted about it.

And yes we had a kiss and it was lovely but I went straight back to my hotel room because I am a lady (and you all told me too)

OP posts:
Bogeyface · 26/02/2014 22:51

calling IN sick obviously!

Bogeyface · 26/02/2014 22:51

WWWOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!

Shame I didnt win my bet, but what a fantastic result! Can we have an MN flashmob at the wedding? Wink

AlpacaYourThings · 26/02/2014 22:53

Aww that's sweet.

How do you think your work will take it? I know it wouldn't be a big deal where I work at all.

MamaPingu · 26/02/2014 22:54

Yayyyyy!!! Grin

AmIatwat · 26/02/2014 22:55

I'm so made up for you, I really hope it all works out , got a good feeling about this.xxxxxxxx At last I can sleep tonight.

fortyplus · 26/02/2014 22:56

Brilliant! Smile

Original poster
AdvicePlease1709 · 26/02/2014 22:58

Well we have a morning meeting just to sign some contracts and then back to work. I think we will keep it away from work for the time being until we know it is serious.

I will keep you all updated if you want me to. We will be going for something to eat and drinks on Friday

OP posts:
nomorebooze · 26/02/2014 23:00

fab outcome so pleased:) defo keep us updated ! really hope it all works out well for you Flowers

Lurleene · 26/02/2014 23:05

Oh how lovely. I really hope it works out. Well done for taking the risk of telling him how you feel, it must have been so scary!

Incapinka · 26/02/2014 23:07

This is so exciting. Please keep us posted. I am pregnant and need some excitement!!

ZenNudist · 26/02/2014 23:08

Hope this works out for you

[hangs out for update ]

MerryInthechelseahotel · 26/02/2014 23:09

bogeyface Grin

Have a good time op! Keep us informed!