Eeek. I have a person with a penis on his way over with wine.

[EdwiniasRevenge]

It's been a VERY long time.

I have no idea which direction this is goig to take.

My pre teen dds are still up.

I need a hand to hold.

Oh some party poopers on this thread! I'm rather partial to a person with a penis while my kids are fast asleep.reminds me of mine! We did the sneaking out early thing for a while too, had to be 4.30 though to avoid eldest who always rises at 5.30! Stopped one time when he slept in and got caught! Stays over weds and says now and plays with the dc in the morning - they love him!

Hope he's lovely op! Nice to see a nice story on relationships!

*sats

The only reason he left early was not so much that it woulf freak out the kids.

More that little kids have mouths...and we aren't ready for that level of exposure at the mo.

I felt very guilty "throwing him out" , especially seeing as we were very sleep deprived but was a mutual decision.

Yeah, our reason was that it would freak out my xh! It did but he got over it!

Well that was what I was trying not to say for fear of getting flamed that if that is holding us backnwe shouldn't be doing it in the first place (sigh)

Remember he is/was exps friend originally. ...

And now he's your friend.
Your ex would be/might be pissed off because he'd stayed over whether you did anything or not.
I say, "in for a penny..........."

The 40-Year-Old Virgin is a hilarious comedy, with a nice sex scene at the end :)

This film looks so creepy...

Welive - that film is superb! It's quirky, funny and really touching. O recommend it!

Hmm...40year old virgin. I like the sound of that...but there are some parallels that are freakish.

I'm almost 40 (he's not so being 40 has been a topic of convo a bit over the last few weeks)

I'm a single mother.

And he's not that far off being a virgin....

Don't want to choose a film which may mistakenly highlight some of the potential barriers we've previously talked thru iyswim.

Just make sure it is a rom com for gals and guys, you don't want him falling asleep half way through like my DH!

How old is he?24

The 40 year old virgin is not a good early date movie!

Friends with benefits?

Forget the romcom, you need a good scary horror film....

Fatal Attraction. That'll really put the willies up him.

I am not aware of any horros with a good sex scene

Lawd I've seen plenty

Well, sex scenes anyway - perhaps they're not good ones

But you can cuddle up to him in the scary bits

Sabrina's had too much perhaps...

I'm planning on cuddling up throughout...sod the scary bits lol!

I watched "Lars and the Real Girl" with DH last night, and can report we did not have sex!!! 100% not a date night movie :P