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Unexpected spanking. [blush]

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SilenceWillFall · 05/02/2014 14:20

So, NC'd, before anyone accuses me of being a troll or a journo.

yesterday, DP and I were having sex and everything was going as normal - not boring or anything, but quite vanilla. And suddenly, he leans forward and smacked my arse with some enthusiasm. He's never done it before and it took me quite by surprise. It wasn't unpleasant - I didn't object, and erm, quite enjoyed it.

But today I'm feeling a bit weird about it. Am I odd for enjoying it? Was it odd for him to do it? Argh, so many questions. Any advice from the wise women of MN would be welcome.

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Sparklingbrook · 06/07/2017 21:19

TonyConrad is on a mission bumping old threads about sex..

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RickOShay · 06/07/2017 21:39

Thanks sparkling. Smile

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Adamadamant · 06/07/2017 21:56

Its absolutely fine that you enjoyed it, But he does need to know your boundaries so a chat would be good. But hey what's sexier than telling your partner what you like and he/she responding postively.

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Onhold · 06/07/2017 22:02

urgh. perv alert.

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RedComet · 06/07/2017 22:08

Not read the entire conversation but I think it is important you talk to him and agree a safe word that stops play and discuss limits.

Have fun :-)

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Sparklingbrook · 06/07/2017 22:11

Not read the entire conversation

Well it goes back 3 years...

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