So, NC'd, before anyone accuses me of being a troll or a journo.
yesterday, DP and I were having sex and everything was going as normal - not boring or anything, but quite vanilla. And suddenly, he leans forward and smacked my arse with some enthusiasm. He's never done it before and it took me quite by surprise. It wasn't unpleasant - I didn't object, and erm, quite enjoyed it.
But today I'm feeling a bit weird about it. Am I odd for enjoying it? Was it odd for him to do it? Argh, so many questions. Any advice from the wise women of MN would be welcome.