no Single - no one is taking issue at all, it's just that some of us read the thread you started, and the responses (by well meaning people) were just the same stuff we've heard before from smug-marrieds. Get a hobby. Stop looking and you'll meet someone. Lower your standards, you're obviously too picky. All things we've seen before. No one took any offence at anything you said at all. You're very welcome here, on the sofa (not currently dating) or actively seeking someone. It's all different sorts but we give each other advice, wind each other up, help each other out, all that stuff.
We talk about dating, real life and online, get help with profiles, ask advice about potential dates. Sometimes it ends up being a relationship - all different kinds. Sometimes people are looking for FWB, it's down to the individual.
S'nice here. You're welcome to join.
Just please, Ike, stop going on about that Doctors sexual pecadilloes. He was weird.