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New beginning. Dating thread 41

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lubeybooby · 11/02/2013 23:22

Dating chit chat here :)

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Scrazy · 15/02/2013 17:45

Rose, you are right to ignore, don't let it upset you further.

EternalRose · 15/02/2013 17:55

Helen I copied and pasted the email because I was shocked that someone would send such an email, it seemed like a spiteful thing to do.

Anyway, I will leave it now as this thread is lovely and this is just nonsense really.

MNHQ
HelenMumsnet · 15/02/2013 18:04

@VoiceofUnreason

Sorry, Helen, publicising a personal attack on yourself is classed as a personal attack???? Can you explain that one a little please??

Yes. Afraid so.

If I called you a cow. On the boards or via PM.

And then you posted that I was pig for calling me a cow, you are attacking me personally.

Even though I attacked you personally too.

Both posts/PMs merit deletion.

lulubellaboozle · 15/02/2013 18:09

errr Helen but she didn't call her anything??

she just pasted a copy of a horrible PM and said I have received this and I am shocked ............

MNHQ
HelenMumsnet · 15/02/2013 18:12

@lulubellaboozle

errr Helen but she didn't call her anything??

she just pasted a copy of a horrible PM and said I have received this and I am shocked ............

Afraid she called her spiteful as well.

We do appreciate the irony of the situation - and hope that you can trust us to take care of things appropriately behind the scenes.

KinNora · 15/02/2013 18:13

Based on a quick skim through,

48, you've done the right thing, all the pills will do is alter your chemistry slightly to give you a little bit of respite, nowt to it.

Fingers crossed so tightly for Snape that it's a wonder I can type.

Nomore - Bosch customer service make Nora angreeeeeeeeeeee ! I've had dealings with them over an oven with a filament that blew 5 times, the memory still makes me hyperventilate. I wouldn't buy a nail clipper from them.

Not sure what's gone on with the deleted posts but I think I can probably guess. Steps back in amazement.

EternalRose · 15/02/2013 18:20

Sad So I was meant to just accept what she did and not outwardly show my disdain? If it wasn't a spiteful message surely she would have just wrote it on my thread? She knew what she was doing.

I got your email Helen thank you, but it's not clear how you will 'follow this up'

I don't want to drag this out, and I probably am by writing this but today has been very emotional for me and this really has been another blow!

JulietteMontague · 15/02/2013 18:21

What the fuck happened this time? I thought this thread was back on an even keel, and that we were done with the personal attacks. Fucks sake.

JulietteMontague · 15/02/2013 18:27

Rose whatever it was, you were right to post it it is particularly nasty to post private message attacks and it has backfired on whoever did it spectacularly.

Flipper924 · 15/02/2013 18:27

48, I think you've been very brave in asking for help.

Snape, I'm looking forward to your update...

I'm not sure if I should be fed up or relieved that I went for a bath when all the fun kicked off.

SweetSeraphim · 15/02/2013 18:29

No, you shouldn't have just accepted it Rose - still, a deleted message just means you're a proper member now Wink

Good luck tonight Snape, I am excited! Crossing fingers for The Chat to have a positive outcome!

KinNora · 15/02/2013 18:32

Hope you're ok, Flipper, by the way.

Rose, anyone would do something underhand and nasty is not worth a moment's thought, honestly. Flowers

JulietteMontague · 15/02/2013 18:34

Helen so MNers are allowed to write posts full of spite, using personal details previously shared against someone but the crime is to actually call that behaviour out as spiteful?

EternalRose · 15/02/2013 18:36

Thanks for the support everyone, I really appreciate it.

But please do tell me how your days have all been, it will cheer me up. I, too am looking forward to snape's update.

x

lulubellaboozle · 15/02/2013 18:37

well said Juliette

OhWesternWind · 15/02/2013 18:38

Rose post it again without comment and people can make up their own minds.

I've never had a post deleted before!!! I didn't think it was that bad compared to what she wrote about me the other day - and which was not deleted. Confused

Scrazy · 15/02/2013 18:38

Oh Oh fireman alert Grin quite nice looking and articulate too.

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lubeybooby · 15/02/2013 18:40

mnhq Rose did not include a personal attack with it, she asked if we thought it was spiteful. Different thing

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JulietteMontague · 15/02/2013 18:41

And fwiw I haven't even seen the most recent post but have seen enough examples of 'some people' taking peoples personal details they have shared when needing support and using their weaknesses to wound and hurt when the time is right. That is actually what abusers do. Tired of it, its appalling behaviour.

SweetSeraphim · 15/02/2013 18:44

I have to say, I know rules are rules and all that, but after some of the stuff that the person in question has posted to others on these threads, I am surprised that these were the ones you chose to delete, MNHQ Confused

EternalRose · 15/02/2013 18:44

Where is the link scrazy Smile? I'm always up for a bit of fireman candy.

MNHQ
HelenMumsnet · 15/02/2013 18:46

@OhWesternWind

Rose post it again without comment and people can make up their own minds.

I've never had a post deleted before!!! I didn't think it was that bad compared to what she wrote about me the other day - and which was not deleted. Confused

Did you report it, OhWesternWind?

MNHQ
HelenMumsnet · 15/02/2013 18:47

@SweetSeraphim

I have to say, I know rules are rules and all that, but after some of the stuff that the person in question has posted to others on these threads, I am surprised that these were the ones you chose to delete, MNHQ Confused

Please do report them, SweetSeraphim. We don't see all the posts on MN; you need to report them to us, if you think they break the rules.

SweetSeraphim · 15/02/2013 18:48

Okies, will do.

mercury7 · 15/02/2013 18:49

I'm confused?
watch sent a pm to Rose, Rose found the pm upsetting or hurtful and posted the pm on this thread to see if others thought her reaction was justified?
is that about it?

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