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Men who don't watch porn

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FBworry · 10/12/2012 19:40

I do not believe all men watch porn.

However I wonder why they dont with it now being the "norm"?

Was there never any interest in the first place? Has it lost its shine? Is it a for feminist reasons?

Or is it more of a case of resisting temptation? As in they do want to watch but guilt and/or morals stop them? Fear of being caught?

We live in a time when we are constantly fed the message all men watch porn so nobody ever discusses those that don't watch it.

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MrsWolowitz · 12/12/2012 18:52

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BlameItOnTheChoirOfAngels · 12/12/2012 18:53

many victims of childhood sexual abuse are filmed or photographed being abused and those images and tapes are passed around. cunts

BlameItOnTheChoirOfAngels · 12/12/2012 18:54

this has some big words

Shoesme · 12/12/2012 18:55

People don't have to start name calling. Id appreciate it if you didn't.

BlameItOnTheChoirOfAngels · 12/12/2012 18:56

here

from washington "The US Department of Justice Child Exploitation and Obscenity Section reports 12 is the average age of entry into pornography and prostitution in the U.S."

BlameItOnTheChoirOfAngels · 12/12/2012 18:57

noone has called you names. the people who abuse children are cunts.

seeker · 12/12/2012 18:57

Rattled, Shoesme? How are you feeling now?

BlameItOnTheChoirOfAngels · 12/12/2012 18:58

this is also worth a look.

do you get the idea?

seeker · 12/12/2012 19:00

To be fair, I did call him a lowlife, Blame. But he did say that all partners are liars, and we have rubbish sex lives, so I think that's fair.

Shoesme · 12/12/2012 19:01

Yes it is shocking and i can safely say i do not watch any of that shit. I only watch/have watched legal pornography. With the likes of Sasha Grey and what not.

MrsWolowitz · 12/12/2012 19:02

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Shoesme · 12/12/2012 19:02

I have not said you have rubbish sex lives, you must be confusing me with someone else. And IMO men lie about watching porn.

BlameItOnTheChoirOfAngels · 12/12/2012 19:02

but how do you really know how its funded? you dont, you have to trust the makers, and could you really after reading those links?

MrsWolowitz · 12/12/2012 19:03

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BlameItOnTheChoirOfAngels · 12/12/2012 19:03

NOT ALL MEN LIE

Shoesme · 12/12/2012 19:04

Aslong as i know Sasha Grey is happy with what she is doing, enjoying her career then yeah, no problem watching her.

FBworry · 12/12/2012 19:04

Shoesme

Since you know my dh and father of my children far better than me could you tell me when he is doing all this danger wanks to porn please?

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seeker · 12/12/2012 19:04

And you're absolutely sure that none of the women involved are vulnerable, exploited or trafficked? Because 5 minutes ago you were absolutely sure that there weren't any minors involved..............

BlameItOnTheChoirOfAngels · 12/12/2012 19:04

and even if the people you are watching are 18 when you watch them, how do you know that they started at that age? its far more likely that they started being abused and exploited when they were much younger.

Shoesme · 12/12/2012 19:04

*Some men.

Shoesme · 12/12/2012 19:07

Yes Seeker, im pretty sure Sasha Grey and all these other "famous" pornstars aren't any other those things.

BlameItOnTheChoirOfAngels · 12/12/2012 19:07

but hasnt she tried to get out of pornography? suggesting that shes no longer happy. and what of the other people? are you sure that they are happy?

you keep talking about her as if she's the rule, not the exception.

BlameItOnTheChoirOfAngels · 12/12/2012 19:07

again, other "famous" "mainstream" pornstars please?

Shoesme · 12/12/2012 19:08

If she wants to leave porn im sure she can. Im not sure if they have contracts in the porn industry.

BlameItOnTheChoirOfAngels · 12/12/2012 19:11

again, you are talking about one person.

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