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Age old question I know - but is kissing another person cheating?

55 replies

DoIlooklikeapeopleperson · 01/11/2012 13:52

And when I say kissing I mean snogging for 10 minutes on 3 separate occasions.

Would really like a simple yes or no.

OP posts:
Anifrangapani · 01/11/2012 13:52

Yes

GlesgaRocket · 01/11/2012 13:53

Yes, definitely cheating.

ScarletWomanoftheVillage · 01/11/2012 13:54

yes

FuckityFuckFuck · 01/11/2012 13:54

Yes

A million time yes

Anniegetyourgun · 01/11/2012 13:54

Quick peck, no. (XH please take note!) Long snog, definitely.

Pancakeflipper · 01/11/2012 13:55

Yes.

DragonMamma · 01/11/2012 13:55

Yes yes yes.

Titsalinabumsquash · 01/11/2012 13:55

Of course it is!

ScreamyShriekyFrightyWoozyWooo · 01/11/2012 13:56

Yes.

DoIlooklikeapeopleperson · 01/11/2012 13:56

Thank you.

OP posts:
dequoisagitil · 01/11/2012 13:56

Definitely. An extended kiss is intimate.

susiedaisy · 01/11/2012 14:00

yes

PeppermintPasty · 01/11/2012 14:12

Yes, definitely. Are you ok?

firstpost · 01/11/2012 14:14

Yes, that sort of intimacy is cheating. Definitely.

YouOldSlag · 01/11/2012 14:15

Yes without a doubt. It's very intimate.

booklava · 01/11/2012 14:16

yes

WaitingForMe · 01/11/2012 14:19

I think cheating is anything the person you are in a relationship would consider cheating.

fluffyraggies · 01/11/2012 14:23

So, are you the cheated on or the cheater OP?

OhDeerHauntingFENTON · 01/11/2012 14:25

Yes, it's cheating.

MrsTerryPratchett · 01/11/2012 14:28

Yes. Are you the kisser or non-kisser? Even if one time wasn't, three definitely was.

BeerTricksPott3r · 01/11/2012 14:29

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MrsBungleScare · 01/11/2012 14:30

Yes definitely cheating.

Teeb · 01/11/2012 14:30

I'd agree that within the standard definition it is cheating, yes.

Cheating is something that one/both parties decides it is.

sooperdooper · 01/11/2012 14:32

I think the frequency makes it cheating, once could be a mistake, three times is cheating

YouOldSlag · 01/11/2012 14:34

Once would be enough to cause a fierce row and have a massive kick up the arse, but more than once would have me considering the future of the relationshsip.