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help me stay strong, i think hes going to ask to come back!!

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loganberry12 · 14/08/2012 18:16

Exh left five months ago i was devasted at the time but now am much happier with my life and don't want him back. when he left he was so cold and uncaring told me he didn't love me and was never coming back.
He's been given till the end of the month to move out where he's staying and says he has no where to live can't afford anything and will have to live in his car.
for months I've been asking him to clear the cap he left in the garden an old shed wood etc he's shown no interest . tonight when he collected dd he said he'd been signed of work for three weeks cos of his back. he said he'd come and clear it for me and also wouldn't stop talking mostly uninteresting cap about him but he's certainly arse licking i couldn't get away usually he hardly speaks. i think he's going to ask to come back but i don't want him too under those circumstanses it would never work id resent gimmick for hurting me so much then coming back cos he has no other choice. how do i react if he asks ?

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MardyArsedMidlander · 15/08/2012 15:04

So this isn't him realising what afool he's been and what a wonderful woman you are? It's more that he had to find somewhere else to live and his back's hurting Angry

Tell him that the FAR SIDE OF FUCK OFF always has plenty of accommodation.

bubalou · 15/08/2012 15:19

Quite simply you say 'fuck off'

Smile - haha at him being on his arse

MissFaversam · 15/08/2012 15:24

Another one here saying to tell him to bugger right off OP. What a selfish, entitled twat he is.

bubalou · 15/08/2012 15:41

MardyArsedMidlander love that!

loganberry12 · 15/08/2012 15:54

Mardy {grin}

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caramelwaffle · 15/08/2012 16:09

Mardy Grin

Jux · 16/08/2012 09:33

He might bring you flowers and chocolates. You can still say no. Did he ask?

loganberry12 · 16/08/2012 14:35

Not asked yet thank god he'll probably wait till he's been living in his car a few weeks lol. Jux he's never brought me chocolate before and only flowers once so i delt it.

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Jux · 16/08/2012 16:08

TBF, my dh only bought me flowers once (garage flowers, horrible things too) and I knew immediately something was wrong!

loganberry12 · 16/08/2012 16:21

He brought me them for valentines this year first time ever which i thought was out of character at the time. He left in April lol.

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