Why is he shaving his pubes?

[SoreenSiren]

My DH suddenly decided to give his pubes a short back and sides. I think he's up to something, especially as he denied it. Is there suddenly a fashion for middle aged men to shave down there?

I think that's your answer, Soreen. There's something more than business going on, I think.

He's secretive about credit card statements and his phone? He's shaving his pubes? He's away from home a lot?

I think you have a big problem. I'm really sorry.

I think you know then don't you? :(

Adding up other things (looking for a new laptop - with a better webcam?) I think I know.

DP trims his chest and pubic hair when it's hot weather, could it just be that?

Oh

He's been asked to perform 'The Last Turkey In The Shop' for the Theatre of Penis Puppetry?

Good luck OP

DOes not look good

There is a strong link between porn and infidelity - often via chatrooms/online messaging/webcams and dating sites. This is why you get lots of adverts for these when viewing porn online as users want to get a real life hit.

Get hold of his phone and check emails, only way especially if he doesn't communicate much

Sorry if TMI but DH trims his because he gets hot and sweaty down there! Maybe your DH is just embarassed to admit it...!

Thinking of you Op, have you spoken to him yet?

It has been really hot this week, maybe he was getting really sweaty and shaving it made him feel fresher and cleaner?

(hopeful)

he did it before it got hot, haven't had the chance to speak to him, not sure how to play it TBH. Argued a lot about porn in the past. Not keen on resurrecting that. Mulling it over for now.

It just looks better IMO, adds an inch too.

Amazing..... someone says they've 'been told' that men on webcams shave their bits, and before we know it, it's accepted lore that this guy is appearing on webcam sites. Where does the op say she knows he is? She followed a weak suggestion and leaped to an assumption.

He's shaving his pubes because he's bored with your sex life and wants it to be more like the porn he watches. It doesn't mean for one second he's doing it for another woman, he's doing it for him and his wife.

Learn to read.

Crabs!

Op - what's the story? Are you ok?

wants it to be more like the porn he watches

Christ. Porn is a dull as dishwater. He's a dullard if that's his reason.

I have skimmed the thread. I will offer my personal experience.

My xp did it when he found out that his OWs DH did it.

I kind of knew this was the case but didn't want to admit it to myself for a while. Took hid stories of him doing it to spice up love life etc.

But he is xp for a reason.

Having seen that he did it the night before a business trip I be more worried about ow than web porn tbh.

House of pain,

It's you that needs to learn to read, there is nowhere in here that the op says she knows anything is going on with webcams, one or two posters suggested it could be a reason for his shaving, and WHAM, suddenly is fact