Brief outline.
I'm 49. Met someone 3 years ago. I haven't ever settled down and felt a bit of a freak really as in why has nothing ever lasted blah blah and I can honestly say that I haven't met anyone that I wanted to with.
Anyway, I decided I bloody would have something that lasted, older and wiser etc. and make this one work.
I always thought I was a bit of a "bollox", wouldn't put up with that, well I DID.
No, DV or anything but blimey what a selfish bastard. I asked, I cried, I went on citalopram and blamed my "change of life" for the way I felt.
I came on this site sat on the fence, went one way then the other.
It's thanks to this site that I finally ended it.
And thank you all you wise lovely people x
(just finally kicked him out and having a voddy)
Disclaimer - if this doesnt make sense its not my fault 