A heart felt thanks to mumsnet

[MissFaversham]

Brief outline.

I'm 49. Met someone 3 years ago. I haven't ever settled down and felt a bit of a freak really as in why has nothing ever lasted blah blah and I can honestly say that I haven't met anyone that I wanted to with.

Anyway, I decided I bloody would have something that lasted, older and wiser etc. and make this one work.

I always thought I was a bit of a "bollox", wouldn't put up with that, well I DID.

No, DV or anything but blimey what a selfish bastard. I asked, I cried, I went on citalopram and blamed my "change of life" for the way I felt.

I came on this site sat on the fence, went one way then the other.

It's thanks to this site that I finally ended it.

And thank you all you wise lovely people x

(just finally kicked him out and having a voddy)

Disclaimer - if this doesnt make sense its not my fault

are you snotting yet, MissF ?

ledditallllllllllout

Sits here in calvin klein nightwear stuff with a fat face over top and glad that i only pissed in the toilet

All bought from tk max of course.

Right, thanks you lot. Done with the sad sorrys. Off to other threads.

Hopefully, I'm allowed to swear due to happening.

Fuck, bollox, arse, bumface, shit, running out of descriptions. Onwards and upwards ay.

ok, I am off to bed now

work in the am, boo hiss

take care, MissF

and thanks again AF, you do fab work.

Dear oh dear - you disappear for 2 minutes and then all this happens!

Snot I can do - although OP is done with sads! Also maybe it would help if I could have spelled karaoke correctly!!

Night to those who are getting ready to head off. Second lot of support and hurrahs for MissF and some aspririns for the morning xxx

Oh, well done, MissF!

Puke all that disappointment down the loo and, if you do it throughly enough, you'll feel FINE come morning!

Not only that - you'll wake up with the WHOLE of the bed to sprawl in, a damn good excuse for a day off if you want it, and mumsnet to cook you a virtual breakfast

Good for you. x

Off to have the WHOLE bed garlic. sad that it didnt work out but glad that I didnt settle for what wasnt right for me

Cant say I wont be sad because I will. Its a grieving process after all and I may need a bit of back up.

I just want to say to everyone that thinks they have to settle for mediocre, guess what, you dont.

Still here feeling a bit woosy. had a great wise thought in mind and bloody forgot it. Still damn glad i got shot though and no going back.

Can't take day off tomorrow due to me being the only one there. Will just feel jaded inbetween sicking up in bin, maybe

He has my keys though, should i change locks? he said he would come get his stuff tomorrow and leave them, shall i give him the benefit of the doubt? He's a public servant so in doing anything to me/my house would reflect very bad on him. Maybe it's his last sort of control thing.. I will come and move my stuff when I want sort of thing.

If he doesn't leave the keys yes change the locks. If you mean before he comes...it is probably part of his controlling but it's up to you, is a third person going to be with you if you're there when he comes? If so then not unless you're worried but if on your own I would and package his things, neatly so no accusations etc. It really is a case of using your knowledge of his behaviour to work out the thing least likely to incite an outburst. If you suspect he's going to ravage the place then yes I probably would.

I'll stay tuned for great wise thought!

Very well done, MissF, you splendid, spirited, glorious, wonderful woman.

A public servant, you say? Pillar of the community and all that? Change your locks and freak him out with the threat of the police public humiliation if he dares to take the piss out of you again.

Give him a taste of what's to come if he steps out of line by putting his belongings in bin bags and texting him to collect them from your doorstep at a time and date of your choosing.

I do so love proving to selfish arses they can't have it all their own way although, of course, such humble pleasures cannot be compared with the joy of having a technicolour yawn in AF's handbag

....or that!! Izzyizin ftw!

Well done MissF, just to add my bit, if mumsnet wasn't here I would still be in an extremely unhappy and lonely place. Can't thank all these wise ladies enough and I mainly lurked, but learnt.
Hope you feel alright today, hydrate, hydrate...
Hugs

Good morning all, hydrating with bucket loads of hot sweet tea today

Congratulations!!!

Amazingly enough though I haven't felt like barfing, just a bit jaded.

Home time shortly to see if his stuff is gone (crosses fingers)

Just in from work and came to check on you, MissF

Hope his stuff is gone and you enjoy your twat-free evening

Only to help his ass along, you understand...

Just checking in - hope it all went smoothly.

I would like to offer the services of my big dog, he's very good at biting nasty men and very good at huge, warm cuddles. Hopefully it's not something you ever have to worry about ever again.

Let us know MissF?

Morning.

Yes, everything has been moved. When will these so called preconditioned non communicative selfish twits "blokey blokes" learn how to treat a lady huh

DS and I got a take away and cuddled up on the sofa to watch pre-recorded episodes of Bear Grylls (DS doing his DOE this weekend)

Bliss!

Ooh, good luck DS! Sorry the weather's going to be horrid - it was for mine, too, but we gained an extra point for getting on with it despite poor conditions. Just like your mum, eh

glad it's sorted, MissF

onward and upward !

Sounds like a perfect night! So glad it's sorted. Good luck to your DS for the DofE - thermal vest time? [Hmm]

rather!