I caught my boyfriend out, he has been having a relationship with another woman wherby hes been meeting up with her, lying to me about where he is going, waiting for me to go away and then meeting her after dropping our son at his Mum and Dads, he kissed her at Christmas party, and they have been having role play about what they would do to each other if they could. He hasnt slept with her, in fact they both say they havent done anything apart from the kiss, and dont ask me why but I do believe this, but the messages they were sending each other were complete role play, very very explicit. Im completely devestated.