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dh has been v silly.

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misdee · 12/01/2006 10:44

he has been texting some friends, some female. one has feelings for him (i told him this months ago and to stop texting her). she thinks they are having some sort of txt affair. he says no way and she is just a friend. they havent seen each other for over 10years, she cant visit as she is epileptic and cant drive, her dh wouldnt drive her anyway. she is having marriage probs as well. just feel like hitting dh over the head for being so stupid.

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MrsGordonRamsay · 12/01/2006 13:23

You can come out of your room now........

sparklymieow · 12/01/2006 13:24

thanks, i'm really really sorry!!!

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misdee · 12/01/2006 13:26

pmsl again.

she better not txt when i am there.

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sparklymieow · 12/01/2006 13:29

she probably think you are an evil cow for mot visiting him for weeeeeekssssssssssss

sparklymieow · 12/01/2006 13:29

mot=not

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misdee · 12/01/2006 13:30

probably. of course iam evil

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gravity · 12/01/2006 13:42

evil but loveable

how about just "she better not text him"? well, it's be a nice outcome

babe, in all honesty, these texting moles need to be put straight by the men because (this is what i have found in the past)being told by the wife just seems to encourage them because they think they have caused a wave in the relationship. OR Pete needs to completely ignore all her messages

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misdee · 12/01/2006 13:52

i really do hope he is ignoring her now. but obviously i am not there 24/7, so maybe he will reply in the dead of night when i am asleep and he is lonely.

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gravity · 12/01/2006 14:52

misdee, you are a super wife, peter sounds like a great guy. don't let it get you down hun. its not like you. the misdee i always see is so jovial.

can he not text you when he gets lonely?

come on girl make the most out of that camera on the phone again?

Blu · 12/01/2006 22:54

meiow, I know, I know! it was a really funny x posting - and LGJ was being v norty, too
It really did make me laugh!

MeAndMyBoy · 13/01/2006 19:09

Just spotted this, couldn't you txt her from DH's phone? putting her straight - or do you think she'd suss it wasn't DH

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misdee · 13/01/2006 19:10

he is changing his number, i just ordered hi ma cheap PAYG which he'll get free txts for, and will the contract one for the free minutes only.

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misdee · 25/01/2006 19:00

OMG she is leaving her hubby. peter has asked if its anything he has done, and she wont reply! uh oh.

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mummytosteven · 25/01/2006 19:03

she sounds insane. I don't think Peter should be asking her any questions about her decision to leave her husband, as it's implying he feels responsible iyswim, and giving her attention.

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misdee · 25/01/2006 19:07

i know. but he has already asked. am feeling abit unnerved now.

think she hasnt been happy for a while tbh, maybe peter talkign to her hasnt helped matters but i am not happy.

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charliecat · 25/01/2006 19:30

Nutter Wheres she going once she has left hubby?

lou33 · 25/01/2006 19:55

he needs to cut contact with her now i think

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misdee · 25/01/2006 20:00

still no word from her.

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lou33 · 25/01/2006 20:05

I'd be wary about what she has told her h, she may have told him a whole load of bullsh*t regarding her and peter.

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