Not sure where to start on this one, DH & I married 10 yrs but sex life practically non existent. DH has zero interest but isn't and has never been very touchy feely, never hugs, kisses etc. When we got together first it was great but has gone progressively downhill since having kids. I'm at my wits end, I feel totally undesirable. Any suggestions? I don't think he's having an affair I think he genuinely never thinks about it. I have tried to initiate it and have been rebuffed. Help!