On Saturday I arrived home early to find DH watching...

[FannyPriceless]

... motorsport!! I still can't believe that I found him watching this. In all the years that I have known him I would have sworn he simply wasn't into it and would never do this.

I feel as though I don't really know him at all. What is going on?

It's not much better than slavery for the poor cars. They don't have a choice.

And by supporting motorsport and watching it on television your DH is funding this vile trade.

Better than catching him watching Antiques Roadshow or Escape to the Country...

Thank you all so much for your replies. I am trying so hard to be strong through all of this.

I have put both kids to bed by myself tonight because he is away in London today, back late. He told me it was for 'work'. But now I am almost falling apart with worry. Does anyone know if there was some motorsport event on somewhere today? It's just that when I phoned him it went straight to message.

I now feel as though I have to question everything. I really don't know if this relationship can be saved.

Cricket at the Oval - that's what I did - it's good to get off on hard core motor sport in HD, until you discover live cricket

Hasn't the tennis been moved? I'm so sorry OP. It looks like he may several unusual preferences.

Le Queen - cockpit? Helmet? The champagne spurting?
It's like Bucket O'Porn Metaphors.

I could burn my bra? In fact I have one slightly singed already?

I enjoy a bit of motorsport. DP was shocked at first but now we often watch it together. He even accompanied me to a Formula 1 GP recently. He says it wasn't at weird as he was expecting and he actually enjoyed it a little bit. We may even go again.

Keeperlit - I believe you should keep er lit and between the hedges?

I hope he is cleaning up after himself. You don't want oily tissues everywhere