hmm just found out work colleague has been sleeping with another girl in our office as well as me....

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ok so tonight i was talking to a girl i used to work with and found out we have been sleping with the same person for the past few months

Her and myself had been keeping it quiet. He ended their relationship by text last night. Also last night he had a conversation we me about moving our relationship forward and getting more serious .

I will not be moving our relationship forward atall. I didnt tell the other girl that I have been sleeping with him also and im not sure if i should or not as i dont want to upset her. But I would want to know.

I asked how often they had been seeing each other and she said about 3 or 4 times a week. I have a dd so only saw him once a week or once every 2 weeks. And when i did talk to him he acted liked he wanted a proper relationship with me. But he new that I didnt really want that as have alot going on.

Im not really sure what replies to expect, but just wanted to tell someone, I'm not terribly upset but as I like the other girl I do feel bad for her as she seems upset and I feel guilty that I have not told her. Should I tell her???

I wasn't quite that bad.

Oh I've had two in a day before now. Mind you I like group sex so sometimes it's been three or four at once. I don't get out much these days but if I start seeing a man I always make it clear that monogamy is not on the menu.

yup, prior to dh, i had an asia-based pilot who stopped over in heathrow once a month or so, a guy who worked in refugee camps in the middle east who was in the UK for about 1 week out of 6, an actor who worked on a show ooop north who i saw a couple times a month... it was a lovely arrangement, and only the actor ever stopped to question (and got in a strop) why there weren't as many condoms left in the box as there had been last time he was round... suited everyone fine... then met dh and the rest were, as they say, history

i never had a 'passing on the stairs' incident, though i did have 2 beardy long haired vegans on bikes crossing just outside my house once who must have suspected something was up...