biting???

[tinkerbell41]

things are going well with new man,been two months now and its still exciting but settled if you know what i mean....he knows kids off limits and their routine and is accepting of that...i am still cooking too much for him but hey ho i (sorry!!!!!)like to!!!we had a couple of chats bout the no romance talk etc and i now happily tease him bout it...

anyway i,ll stop waffling and get to point of this thread.....was having a little afternoon playtime(sorry if this tmi)with him this afternoon and it was quite rough-both of us not just him....anyway when he went down below he bit me a couple of times-it hurt but didnt do any damage(cant believe
i,m writing this)...in some ways it was kinda nice but i,m just wondering if i,m being really thick and its a slippery slope??? am so out of things dont want to give him the wrong signals!!!!

mousey, my < shrug > was a pretendy-nonchalant one

If someone bit my minge they'd have a hell of a lot of explaining to do!

Surely it's only polite to check first?

apparently not, MW

apparently that is tiresome

You'd have thought eh? I'm no prude and I know biting is vanilla for quite a few people but full on biting someones fanjo or cock until it hurts, is rather specialist. I'd have thought

Op you should bite his cock next time, he's obviously up for it :)

god is that classed as 'vanilla'? i thought dp and i were adventurous in bed but hes never done that nor would i want him to.

biting gently on neck, great, on clitoral area?? god no.

sorry havent been around,ds had my computer....
to answer the questions,yep it was a proper bite on my labia twice,did hurt,didnt draw blood,yes we get quite rough with each other-hes very strong-i like that!!,yes i bite him when we play fighting but not that hard-dont leave marks(much) and no he isnt shit in bed hes quite the opposite in fact,sex is great and he makes sure i,m 'sorted' before he comes!!!
i,m enjoying exploring new things but think he thinks i,m more experienced than i actually am,he much younger and we play games with each other so dont really want to go down the route of talking everything through as its more fun being exciting???
i really appreciate all your replies and i guess the thing i need to realise is that i need to do whatever makes me happy and dont let him do what i dont want him to do!!ta guys..

Every time someone mentions it I wince in pain. My dh just asked what I was reading.

Now getting a face.

Maybe you could agree a safe word with him?

yep that a good idea madonna...

Safeword is a good idea if you are doing kinky stuff with a new or newish partner. BUt when you're having any kind of sex with anyone, it's OK to say 'Stop, that's not doing it for me.'
If you feel you can't say that, then there's a problem that needs addressing, whatever the actual act you didn't enjoy might be.

ha! SGB even called it "kinky stuff"

The most shocking thing SGB could do would be to reveal that she's secretly vanilla :o

i know i,m being dumd but what does vanilla mean??

oops meant dumb

I have it as fact that sgb is really Mary Whitehouse posting from her armchair, surrounded by piles of newspapers and 200 cats

It means like 'normal', 'standard', 'not kinky'.

tink..it's a variety of ice cream, like neapolitan, or tutti-frutti

peter-i like honeycomb

It's a flavour of milkshake. Mine brings all the boys to the yard...

tink...I think you have a hankering after the ol' Rocky Road personally

hmm if thats what i think it is then triple nope...

crunchy ?

chunks to bite on ?

what did you take it to mean ?

lol... sorry....was thinking of brown..

Ouch.

Not for me, ta.

And anyway, nowt wrong with vanilla.