biting???

[tinkerbell41]

things are going well with new man,been two months now and its still exciting but settled if you know what i mean....he knows kids off limits and their routine and is accepting of that...i am still cooking too much for him but hey ho i (sorry!!!!!)like to!!!we had a couple of chats bout the no romance talk etc and i now happily tease him bout it...

anyway i,ll stop waffling and get to point of this thread.....was having a little afternoon playtime(sorry if this tmi)with him this afternoon and it was quite rough-both of us not just him....anyway when he went down below he bit me a couple of times-it hurt but didnt do any damage(cant believe
i,m writing this)...in some ways it was kinda nice but i,m just wondering if i,m being really thick and its a slippery slope??? am so out of things dont want to give him the wrong signals!!!!

it's just good manners to me < shrug >

Alsatians? canines? This is beginning to sound like something you might do when out dogging

LHBTR, there is a certain element of tongue-in-cheek in my posts

too subtle for you ?

sorry, missed the off my post there

You have kind of backed up what I was trying to say there fm, albeit actually twisting peoples words to do so.

A man biting your fanny is 'vanilla'?

No, it's not. Not to most people. It's something a man should only ever do if he absolutely knows his partner is into it. You don't just take a wild shot in the dark that a woman enjoys having her fanjo mauled.

Is he generally a bit shit in bed, then?

Fwiw, I am far from 'a missionary in the dark' type of gal, but if a man started biting my fanj I would kick him in the gob and blame it on reflexes...

PAFPM

Any dog putting his tongue in my cheeks would get walloped hard. I hate it when they do that...

Sorry OP, just amusing myself.

It sounds straightforward. If you were taken aback just tell him and see how he reacts. He probably overdid the tooth pressure in his enthusiasm!

LHBTR

I would rather a tongue than teeth, tbqh

rimming...now ya talking

but not by dogs

that isn't vanilla at all...no siree

I must have twisted expectations, but perhaps I've misconstrued the word biting

I'm getting a bit squeamish now Peter. This is a bit bestial for me...

See, I have a saying - 'bite me, lose your teeth pal'

Nope, I'm not a fan of biting or 'nipping' or anything like that.

Sucking, well, now that's a different matter altogether

if it was "nibbling" would Op have posted at all ?

bearing in mind she said she already bites her bloke and they use "handcuffs etc" and have "rough sex" in a very new relationship, so already quite a few boundaries breached

my feeling is he properly bit her...but I'm not the OP of course

perhaps she could elaborate (as previously requested)...

sorry, LHBTR

am not into bestiality, honest

unless you count my ex wife < waits for sharp intake of breath and wrath of MN collective >

I can report that having your clitoris (gently) nibbled is actually rather nice Oh yes. It's great when bath time turns frisky .

Peter

Norty

Fecking hell Mal - it's been years since DH and I managed a bath together.

If we are really lucky, we manage to sneak in a bit of shagging before DS wakes up with another night terror or health issue, but other than that, forget it.

I can't wait until he's at nursery

(DH works from home)

That's the advantage of having DD away at Uni

The sex really should have come before the bath though, with hindsight .

you see, I think I suffer from oversensitivity of the c l i t o r i s (just stopping the googlers)

if I get nibbled down there, I'm on the ceiling, and not in a good way

so a "bite" ?

a no-no for me, it would signal the end of the session, and probably the relationship for me, especially if consent hadn't been gained

there is also (putting serious hat on now) the question of previous experience of sexual abuse

biting is an aggressive and controlling act (in some scenarios), and for some people could trigger flashbacks and a panic reaction < shrug >

mal, you can manage with your flannel though, can't you ?

So are we agreeing that in a new relationship vanilla is good while trust is built, but as a couple get to know each other the boundaries are explored and some will stay very bland while others will explore to the limit?

I guess for everybody there is an eventual limit of some sort, even the most adventurous. And it is how that is communicated that determines the health of the sexual relationship.

So if OP is enjoying pushing the envelope, so to speak, she just needs to sort out how she and her man put the brakes on.

Some people have long memories.

Don't see why the OP should make a big deal out of this she should tell him she is not into being bitten. Considering she bites and they are into rough sex it's an easy mistake to make.

That's why it's a no for me Peter