Unpack his bag or kick him out??!!

[Zephyrrywitchescat]

DP blew up this morning over the fact that there was only one clean sock in the dryer for him. He's been arsey over his washing/ironing a lot lately so while he was having a strop I told him he could iron his own shirt - so he's gone to work in yesterday's rather than iron

Anyway! the result was he's 'had enough' and is moving out. I can't be bothered to argue so i've put his stuff in a bag!!!

What would you do if your dh/dp was being such an arse? Would you make him go to a b&b or just let it go over your head?

get him his own washing basket - tell him to do his own stuff you will look after yours and the kids.

then tell him hes cooking alternate nights, becuase quite frankly your pissed of with WORKING all day and not CLOCKING OUT COME 5PM

he cooks you wash up and visa versa

you look after the living room and kitchen and do the shopping.

he cleans your bedroom - you do your kids rooms. these shouldnt need doing more than once a week.

he takes bin bags and recycling out

you tell him that you want every other weekend OFF

becuase quite frankly you dont get sick leae, flexi time or time of in fucking leui ( thats TOIFL) you start work when the kids get up and dont stop til they go to bed - and even then if theres trouble in the night you get up "becuase you are considerate enough to recognise he has work the next day"

but you are not his fucking maid, your the mother of his children and he should give you respect for doing the best job you bleedin well can or quite frankly fuck off.

.....would be my well thought out and resoned argument!

Heehee nice one Custy - he'll be reading that later

Do you think you'll go for number No 3 Gomez? I'm more terrified with this one thsn I ever was with the first 2!!

Well he called last night as he was about to leavew work but ignored the phone - however dd got upset and said "Is Daddy not coming home?" So I let her ring him and had to talk to him - As expected it was as if nothing happened! He said something about "....if you want me to come home" to which I told him I wasn't bothered so he started "Do I look bovvered? Do I? Face...Bovvered?" So I had to laugh. Git.

This morning it was 'Have I got some underwear?' then when I handed him his shirt he said 'Are you gonna iron it?'

So a talk is to be had. A rota to be made - or Custy's post printed out and stuck around the house!!!

haven't read this thread - but love the title! so succinct!