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Have got myself into something (good) but not sure what to do now

144 replies

AmazingConfusing · 05/11/2010 15:14

Am slightly lurky, well not much of a poster, but anyway have name changed for this.

I've been bursting to tell someone but have sat on it all week and don't know quite what to do now. Last weekend I stayed with some friends of friends, and there was someone there who I'd had a crush on when I was really quite young. We got talking and I found I really, really liked him, and one thing led to another and we spent the night together. Well he went back to his room in the early morning so people wouldn't know.

He is 53 and as far as I could tell, not attached (I did check before doing anything) though he has been married in the past. I thought, well for one night, it won't matter, but he texted me today to say that he is keen to fly up from London tomorrow to see me and wants to leave on Monday morning. He doesn't actually live in Britain so I'm not under any illusions about this but I don't know what to do.

I don't think he can be much of a catch (53 and not ever really settled) for various reasons and I know it's just because I quite liked shagging him Blush and it would be quite convenient as mum has dd for the weekend.

I just feel like a bit of a sad slapper because he was on tv when I was a student and I can't quite believe it and actually am cringing and can't tell anyone I know. I do like him and if it weren't for that then I wouldn't hesitate.

OP posts:
Unprune · 06/11/2010 20:55

WTF sort of a clue is that??? Shock Confused
Have ENORMOUS fun!

Unprune · 06/11/2010 21:03

Hmm google is no help.
Fark

simonedeboudoir · 06/11/2010 21:20

glad it's all going well! have a great night Wink Grin

HappyWithLife · 06/11/2010 22:33

Was he in Grange Hill? That ended with series 16. A teacher perhaps?
(I need to get out more)

tiredemma · 06/11/2010 22:35

number 16 Albert square?

number 16 Coronation st?

FiaGrace · 06/11/2010 22:41

tired I thought that too and even checked to see if there was a number 16 Brookside Close.

However, didn't op say that whatever he was in wasn't very successful?

FiaGrace · 06/11/2010 22:43

Eldorado perhaps, that was pants!

purplepeony · 07/11/2010 12:05

are you still having a good time and why aren't you telling us Grin

PortoTreasonAndPlot · 07/11/2010 12:14

Ooh marking my place for an update. I am so sad I googled Curly Watts Blush but he appears to be happily married! Maybe Mrs Curly is a MNetter?

simonedeboudoir · 07/11/2010 12:22

What's happening??

I need another clue or my head will explode

DelGirl · 07/11/2010 15:36

I keep thinking of this actor with blonde hair, I know he was in doctor who and something like black beauty. Blonde young swash buckling type? Could be totally barking up the wrong tree but a few of my friends had a crush on (not me). Keep wanting to say Tristan, gawd knows why Grin. Anyone know who I mean and not Mark Leicester.

purplepeony · 07/11/2010 15:52

do you mean the guy who was also in all creatures great ad small- the vet programme? don't know his name eitehr but that was a v successful series so not him!

DelGirl · 07/11/2010 16:00

no, not him. He is Peter someone. I can see his face justg can't think of his name Hmm

PlumBumMum · 07/11/2010 16:00

oh God i always get sucked into these threads

no 16 ??? Is that a bus, a flat??

DelGirl · 07/11/2010 16:01

It's unlikely to be him so I don't know why i'm wasting time on it lol.

C'mon, tell us who???

purplepeony · 07/11/2010 16:02

Peter Davidson was called Tristan i think in the vet programme! and he was in dr Who But this guy is not famous!

DelGirl · 07/11/2010 16:12

no it definitely wasn't Peter Davidson i'm thinking of. He could have been in something like Robin hood. I have limited net access so heaven knows why i'm lurking on here Grin

Jellykat · 07/11/2010 16:14

If it's Jessie Metcalfe i will be soooo jealous!

Jellykat · 07/11/2010 16:21

No No No.. not Metcalfe! the Jessie who was in Eastenders for a bit,and Eldorado.. my brain has gone,and i can't remember his surname..

shimmerysilversparkler · 07/11/2010 16:22

Jesse Birdsall, I thought that too.

shimmerysilversparkler · 07/11/2010 16:24

He was pretty big in his day. He was in this great (for its time) series called Annika, don't know if anyone remembers it, I loved it.

Jellykat · 07/11/2010 16:32

Naa its not him,he was born in '63..
Back to the drawing board!

vinvinoveritas · 07/11/2010 17:25

AmazingConfusing- are you alive?

We need a better clue!!

(I need my own life!)

Keith Chegwin was born in 1957, though.. Grin so were Stephen Fry and Osama bin Laden..

PennyDreadful · 07/11/2010 17:35

So was Daniel Day Lewis Shock

PennyDreadful · 07/11/2010 17:36

And Dolph Lundgren Hmm