I've been single for 3 years - no action at all during that time. I recently signed up to an internet dating site and met a really lovely man there. We've met up 3 times - no physical contact yet. He's really nice, we have loads in common, he's got a fantastic sense of humour, very thoughful. Trouble is, I just don't fancy him.
Round about the same time I was asked out by a bloke at work. We have absolutely nothing in common - different backgrounds, no similar interests etc etc, but I fancy him like mad! No physical contact with this one either as yet.
What should I do? Obviously I have to make a choice between these 2 men (mainly becuase I'm desparate to have sex with B, and A is intimating he wants to have sex with me). In the longer term I think bloke A (lovely but not sexy) is probably the better bet. Do I stick with him in the hope that desire will be kindled eventually, or do I fill my boots with bloke B (sexy but nothing in common) in the short term, possibly losing out on the chance of happiness with bloke A?
Really could use some help. Past history has shown me that I tend to fancy men who're bad for me, so I don't trust my instincts at all. What do you all think, oh wise ones?