Meet the Other Phone. Child-safe in minutes.

Meet the Other Phone.
Child-safe in minutes.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Relationships

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

Honestly now., how often do you have sex?

112 replies

bungalowbelle · 11/09/2005 17:14

It's truth time.
I've changed my name for this so I can be honest. If you need to change yours in order to be honest, be my guest.

For me ..... Once or twice a fortnight is ample.

There.

OP posts:
Fio2 · 11/09/2005 17:15

when hes home

vickiyumyum · 11/09/2005 17:17

once or twice a week!
but no real rules depends really, some weeks can be almost every night and then another week not at all, but on average once or twice a week.

cadbury · 11/09/2005 17:17

Used to be once month but more recently, 2 or three times. Four in a very good month.

tiredemma · 11/09/2005 17:18

on average 2/3 times a week.

nutcracker · 11/09/2005 17:20

Hmmmmm on average it's about 3 times a month.

kama · 11/09/2005 17:22

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn

fairyfly · 11/09/2005 17:22

I'm waiting till we are married.

NotInterestedAtAll · 11/09/2005 17:22

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

misdee · 11/09/2005 17:22

once a year. last time was errrrrrrr december?

NotInterestedAtAll · 11/09/2005 17:23

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Yorkiegirl · 11/09/2005 17:24

Message withdrawn

blueteddy · 11/09/2005 17:32

Normally around once a month, but it has been over 2 months now since we last did & I would happily go another couple of months!

starshaker · 11/09/2005 17:33

sex whas that we tried once after dd was born 5 months ago and thats it

MaloryTowers · 11/09/2005 17:34

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

bungalowbelle · 11/09/2005 17:41

Same here Notinterestedatall. I feel for him, but I'm not going to fake it. If I do, I may never really want it again.

I wonder if I'd like it better if ... dare I say it ... he were better at it. (Thank God I've changed my name!)

I love him and he's a great father but ... well, you know...

OP posts:
bungalowbelle · 11/09/2005 17:41

I fear it'll take more than pumpkin seeds to switch me back on MaloryT.

OP posts:
Fio2 · 11/09/2005 17:44

does he just get on top and hump away?

have you tried taking over?

bungalowbelle · 11/09/2005 17:45

Yes and it's better fio, but he always has to F* up my rythm. Doesn't seem able to let me dictate the pace.

OP posts:
kama · 11/09/2005 17:47

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn

bungalowbelle · 11/09/2005 17:48

I've tried kama. He doesn't seem able to help himself. Also, I don't want him to be tense and behaving unnaturally. Perhaps we're just incompatable in bed.

OP posts:
spidermama · 11/09/2005 17:50

Relate do sex counselling. I don't know anyone who has done it but it has to be worth a go.

kama · 11/09/2005 17:51

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn

bungalowbelle · 11/09/2005 17:55

I wondered about Relate counselling spidermama. Has anyone been through it? I'd love to get some passion back in my life.

OP posts:
magnolia1 · 11/09/2005 18:02

About 2 or 3 times a week but would be less if I had my way!!

Dh would have it every night if he could so we compromise

bungalowbelle · 11/09/2005 18:15

Does he know you're going through the motions sometimes? Does he mind?
Mine wouldn't mind as long as he gets it, and that bugs me.

OP posts:
Swipe left for the next trending thread