Honestly now., how often do you have sex?

[bungalowbelle]

It's truth time.
I've changed my name for this so I can be honest. If you need to change yours in order to be honest, be my guest.

For me ..... Once or twice a fortnight is ample.

There.

when hes home

once or twice a week!
but no real rules depends really, some weeks can be almost every night and then another week not at all, but on average once or twice a week.

Used to be once month but more recently, 2 or three times. Four in a very good month.

on average 2/3 times a week.

Hmmmmm on average it's about 3 times a month.

I'm waiting till we are married.

once a year. last time was errrrrrrr december?

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Normally around once a month, but it has been over 2 months now since we last did & I would happily go another couple of months!

sex whas that we tried once after dd was born 5 months ago and thats it

Same here Notinterestedatall. I feel for him, but I'm not going to fake it. If I do, I may never really want it again.

I wonder if I'd like it better if ... dare I say it ... he were better at it. (Thank God I've changed my name!)

I love him and he's a great father but ... well, you know...

I fear it'll take more than pumpkin seeds to switch me back on MaloryT.

does he just get on top and hump away?

have you tried taking over?

Yes and it's better fio, but he always has to F* up my rythm. Doesn't seem able to let me dictate the pace.

I've tried kama. He doesn't seem able to help himself. Also, I don't want him to be tense and behaving unnaturally. Perhaps we're just incompatable in bed.

Relate do sex counselling. I don't know anyone who has done it but it has to be worth a go.

I wondered about Relate counselling spidermama. Has anyone been through it? I'd love to get some passion back in my life.

About 2 or 3 times a week but would be less if I had my way!!

Dh would have it every night if he could so we compromise

Does he know you're going through the motions sometimes? Does he mind?
Mine wouldn't mind as long as he gets it, and that bugs me.