Honestly now., how often do you have sex?

[bungalowbelle]

It's truth time.
I've changed my name for this so I can be honest. If you need to change yours in order to be honest, be my guest.

For me ..... Once or twice a fortnight is ample.

There.

haven't had any for 3 months

and thats coz DP doesn't want any

3-4 times per week, mostly. Dh would have it every night tho.

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hadn't had it for 15 months had a 2 week fling with lots of it in October last year - fell pg with ds .... had it once in December and nothing since ... people seem to automatically assume you're in a relationship if you have a pg belly/ young child .. i wonder why (jokinfg!!!)

This is too nosey

I guess about twice a week on average. I get worried if it drops below that. dh has consistently been an attentive lover, but over the last year or so (part of recovering from his affair) has become a fantastic lover, so I'm always up for it now - in fact more than him really. Having said that we've also had times when I wasn't interested at all (esp when I was pregnant and when the children were very little), which made him very sad. I would definately advocate sorting sexual issues out early as they can turn into serious relationship issues in time.

i agree wholeheartedly with that

Prob about 2/3 times a month. I would like to fancy it more than I do, as I know it really makes DH feel close to me. It's great once it is under way, so to speak, but I'm just very rarely in the mood.

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Thought lav was back for a minute

Er...as I can't be bothered changing my name....nowhere near as often as dh would like.

It varies hugely - sometimes several times a week, sometimes it's once or twice a month. When it happens it's always good, and it's an important part of our relationship, but it's not the be-all and end-all so if we don't do it for a month then it's not a problem.

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Ahhhh
About once week usually to appease him, although I do enjoy it once we;re doing it, it's just it seems like such a hassle, I do fancy him and he is jolly good at it and all, but ummm, I've lost my va va voom...
I found excuse me for being a little crude, that if you indulge in a little solitary activity (ie vibrators etc)once in a while, then bring what you learn personally about that into your sex life with your DP, then it's easier.
DP is always keen for more and I know he is very patient with my lack of libido, but I think he takes it personally after all is said and done.

Why would it be?

Nah, lav only ever asked - never volunteered info about herself.

I know who bungalowbelle is....

(I don't really - just wanted to put the wind up you!)

One of lav's favourite and recurring thread titles was "how often do you have sex?", dropinthe.

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I wasn't around when the legend that was Lavender existed-could someone lavish me with a potted history of her misdemeanors?

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NOOOOOOooooo - don't go there !

Nice!

IvorHeadache - Clever name. It's rather similar to mine so people might confuse us. Not to worry, though.

Our relationship must be weird then cos i want sex every day and always have done and its DH who avoids sex! Im lucky if i get it twice a week, sometimes more and sometimes less. Maybe its an age thing? (im 26 hes 36!)

BTW have to add, when we do its very good its just i have a higher sex drive than DH. I know in hais previous relationship they didnt do anything for over a year!

I very rarely initiate sex and I actually dread him initiating it and have excuses ready much of the time.
When it gets underway it's ok, but not great. I find myself wondering how much longer it'll go on.
He's used to it, but it still upsets him.