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Am curious to read other peoples opinions.

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TheLadyEvenstar · 28/09/2010 01:47

Ok so the scenario is simple

I go to the pub, laugh, joke, dance,flirt, buy drinks for and have drinks bought for me.

Then I go home to DP and our 2 ds's.

There is nothing in any of what I do other than fun...so why do so many friends (some are wives of male friends i drink with) of mine think I am being unfair to DP???

He trusts me and knows I am a major flirt...heck thats how we met.

So what is it other women have a problem with ???

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SolidGoldBrass · 28/09/2010 14:12

I think what is happening (and why your thread is a bit confusing) is basic sexism and mundane small-mindedness - a woman socialising ie talking to Men! Who are not her Owner! must be flirting, because women are not 'people' and the only reason they might talk to men is because they want to have sex with them.
There will probably be one hysterical monogamist whinyarse among the wives of the men in the pub, the sort of silly cow who cries if her DS doesn't immediately switch the TV off when any young, attractive female appears on the screen, who might be stirring a bit out of her own inadequacy, but the rest of it is just boring people with empty lives unable to cope with the fact that a woman might want a social life ie playing pool singing karaoke and having a few drinks that is not about pulling. Just ignore them.

ItsGraceAgain · 28/09/2010 14:21

I've only just clicked that this is the TLES. Rock on, princess, you'll do what suits you anyway! Have fun.

TheLadyEvenstar · 28/09/2010 14:23

IGA lol I don't set out to offend people I just like a laugh!

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