For anyone who remembers me, here's an update.

[onlyjoking9329]

I don't spend so much time on MN these days, the kids keep me busy and I have a busy social life now.
I'm happy to report that after a few difficult years for me and the kids, things are all rather fab here, I've been seeing Tom for a year now and we are getting married
the kids are doing really well abbey and Bethan are now at sixth form and seem happy there, Elliot continues to do very well and keeps us all smiling.
Tom has a fantastic relationship with the kids and they all adore him, Tom is comfy talking with the kids about their dad he understands that steve will never be forgotten.
I am very very happy and at peace.
The mad/evil inlaws are keeping out of our lives for which I am thankful.
Thanks for all of your support over the last few years.

Course I remember you saltire, it seems a long time ago in some ways and not so long ago in other ways, my life is very different these days but mostly in a good way, still have bad days and tearful sad days but not as often as before.

That's really good news :). I was doing a search for something a few days ago and you came up on the thread and I wondered how you were doing.