Have you ever contemplated an affair, just in your head, just for a min

[lazytoad]

I was just wondering how normal it is for people to fantasize about or contemplate an affair even if deep down you know you wouldn't do it. Maybe with a friend or a colleague? Go on, be honest...

Thank you!

oh garage I don't think it's that weird to admit them

I've read advice on here that if there is a crush it's better to get it out in the open and that destroys the fun of it

that is from the high priestesses

Thinking about having sex with imaginary men/actors/strangers I saw in the street and thought they were hot? Yes, every day. Actually contemplating cheating on my wonderful DP? No way, I would be an absolute asshole if I did.

Oh, no, not seriously contemplated. Fantasy, definitely, but as that usually involves people I'm never going to meet in real life, it's just that, a bit of fantasy.

Actually contemplated?

No.

I skipped round the block enough for before DH to know that these days the imagination is usually far better than the reality.

of course